My mother lives next door to this chick who is gay... she has 6 kids with the same guy from a previous marriage, but now she is gay living with a women who for a while we thought was a man. It made me wonder how the ex husband feels about his ex wife being with a super stud raising their kids.. would he feel less of a man? Should he be ashamed? Is it hard to coexist raising your children in a gay relationship when your kids father is still around? Im really serious about this question.
2007-04-18 10:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Beam 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
WELL i tHiNk tHAt HE SH0ULD BE ASHAMED 0F HER?!?!?! i tHiNk tHE HUSBAND SH0ULD tAkE AWAy HiS kiDS AWAy FR0M tHE M0M!!
2007-04-18 10:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by TRAViiESA 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Raising children should always be about the children.
Unfortunately, there are many people that can't get past their own relationships or complications to really do the right things for the kids when a relationship ends.
Whether the ex wife is with a man or woman should have no effect on the ex husband. That relationship is over. What they need to do is be friends for the sake of the children and not put all their own insecurities before those kids. If they can do that the kids will be fine, the parents will be fine, and that really is what everyone wants.
2007-04-18 17:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by hopeartaspirer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is not normal gay couple to raise 6 kids, and they will not be normal when they grow up. So i cant answer to your question, but i suggest not be friends with people who are not normal ;)
2007-04-18 18:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by smajzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he probably does and after having 6 kids with her probably could care less cuz obviously she can handle it. It shouldn't bother him. But, it would probably be the same if she was with another man!
2007-04-18 17:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Namaste 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL, most men feel insecure around gay people, for one reason or another.
2007-04-18 17:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well really --why don't you ask the ex how he feels..Sorry I have no idea what goes on in his head--or what he and his exwife agreed to.
2007-04-18 18:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think its any of your business how these people live. Go on with your own!
2007-04-18 17:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by angelikabertrand64 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is secure in his own
sexuality and masculinity,
I doubt if he feels shame.
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2007-04-18 18:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..yea maybe...depends on the father itself...
2007-04-18 17:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Je m'aime 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋