my sister is gay and would it be right to..?

Question

my sisters a lesbian and three of my very closest best friends know but i was wondering if its ok to tell peopl and stuff...ive never asked my sister about this and was planning on it but i would like ur opinion..and i was also wondering if gays, bis, adn trans think its cool for straights to celebrate LGBT too?

Answer 1

Unless your sister is not out, it is more than appropriate to tell people about her sexuality (presuming that you do it in a respectful manner). We need our friends and family to support us, which means they cannot be embarrassed about us.

It's not so much that you should tell everyone you meet that you have a lesbian sister, but if the subject comes up, then there isn't any reason not to mention it (unless she's in the closet). For example, when people are talking about boyfriends, it is appropriate to mention your sister's girlfriend.

Yes, we want you as an ally.

Answer 2

First talk to her about it. If she's ok with people knowing then I would say it's ok, but you should ask her first. Some people have been outed by friends or family before they wanted to be and it caused problems, so just make sure she's OK with it before you decide to share.

I think it's a positive thing for straight people to celebrate LGBT. I have straight friends and family members who are very supportive of me and gay and lesbian rights.

Answer 3

I don't think it'd be your business to tell. My sister has a lesbian sister (me) and she hasn't told anyone because she knows it's got nothing to do with her and it's not her place to go around telling everyone. Not that I really care if she does because it's fine by me, that's why I think you should ask your sister first, just to make sure if she's ok with you telling others.

The more people who celebrate LGBT, more acceptance, tolerance and love is shared in the world.

Answer 4

I hardly ever tell anyone that I'm gay but for some reason my sister seems to tell the world that I am =/. She's so much more of a crazed crusader for gay rights than I am lol. I can't be mad at her because in her own way it's supportive of my rights but it's embarrasing to meet her friends or coworkers who know something so intimate about me. It's a tough call. I'd ask your sister's permission first myself.

Answer 5

I do not think that it is your business to meddle in her life. If she knows when the time is right to tell her friends and family members, she will decide that for her self.
And yes, you're welcome to celebrate LGBT life too. Cause you support your sister. And support is most and extremely important. Good for you!

And stupid Jan needs a kick in her ***. Educate your self about Diversity. People like you will always be such nurdes! Shame of you!

Answer 6

Did your sister ask you not to tell anyone. You should tell anyone that you feel comfortable telling. Of course straight people can support the gay community, and participate in activities. One of my favorite groups during the Pride Parade is PFLAG. Check them out.

Answer 7

Why would you need to tell them?

Would you tell your friends if she were straight?

Of course it's ok to celebrate LGBT. Go hang out at the parades and have fun.

Answer 8

I would guess your sis might be happy if you'd start talking to her about it. It proves to her that you accept her the way she is, which is a good thing.

I don't know much about LGBT celebration, sorry about that !

Answer 9

I wouldn't share it. That just borders on gossip, and we all know gossip is always in poor taste. Unless she gives you absolute permission to share, then it's ok.

Also, YES! We embrace our straight allies and can always use more. It's a celebration of diversity. Welcome to the LGBT section!

Answer 10

Coming out is a very personal process. Do not come out FOR her. Ask her if it is ok for you to speak to others about her sexuality. If she says not to, then respect her wishes and keep it to yourself. Let her come out on her own time, not yours.