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Or should I say, a person who believed they were straight before meeting you?!

2007-04-18 05:24:57 · 36 answers · asked by Sparklepop 6 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I've fancied 4 supposedly straight women in my life, and strangely after a few months each of them started to have feelings for me!

So either I am very good at flirting, or I have an ability to pick out the not-so-straight women, lol! ;-)

2007-04-18 05:26:23 · update #1

My God, there are some grumpy people on here! LIGHTEN UP.

Thanks to everyone who took this question as it was meant - a lighthearted question! :-)

By the way, I wasn't being vain by adding the details. I just hate in when people ask vague questions without adding details, so I didn't want to do that.

2007-04-18 05:33:12 · update #2

36 answers

no

2007-04-18 05:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa 2 · 1 2

No, on both questions. You can't "convert" a straight person any more than you can "convert" a gay person. If they're into it and are affectionate in return, by definition they have to be either bi or gay. Though I do think there must be a lot of people out there that have been brainwashed into thinking they must be straight- because they think that's their only option- until they meet someone of the same sex, and the wall comes down. Those in denial are, of course, a separate topic, and yes I've helped a couple guys learn to accept themselves for who they are.

2007-04-18 05:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by kena2mi 4 · 0 0

Not many people no I'm bi, but I once was at a friend or a friends sisters 21st, ok that sounded more complicated than it really was lmao. Anyway there was supposed lesbian there and we were talking most of the night and things got a little heated *fill in the blanks*. I don't know if that is really turning someone though because I thought she was bi on first impression but she said I was the first guy she'd dated. Eugh, weirdness ha. That was over a year ago though ha. x

2007-04-19 02:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by chris c 3 · 0 0

I can account for 4 woman who said they would never ever do anything with another woman and they all did after meeting me. 2 of the 4 are all lesbian the other 2 are bi and active.

2007-04-18 06:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Leesa K 2 · 0 0

No.
But when straight women have found out that I am gay they have started to flirt with me. I assume they were straight as they were all married and to all intents and purposes were 'straight' to the world.

No, I have never taken the flirting seriously. It actually annoys me because it shows the double standard and hypocrisy of straight people.

2007-04-18 08:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny 4 · 0 0

Yep I have, during my uni days I had an experience with a guy who was in my course and we lived in the same shared house.

He was straight before I met him and now the total opposite.

2007-04-18 22:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I personally have never tried to and never will try to convert a straight person into being gay they are straight i am gay we may become friends but that is all I wouldn't even think of attempting to convert them into being gay in fact i would think it would be very difficult

2007-04-18 08:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

lol! Not really converted, but a "straight" girl I was dating for a while ended up with another girl after me, and they are now official, and thinking of having a baby. Good for them. I think it's not converting, but actually allowing someone to be themselves and show them that it is OK to have those feelings.

2007-04-18 05:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

converted a straight person? no.. they might come to terms with dormant homosexuality, but they wont magically change orientation.

making a straight person gay is no different to making a gay person straight, it can't be done, we're born the way we are and thats all that there is to it.

2007-04-18 07:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by §ilver 5 · 0 0

I wish I could. I think I'm good-looking, but basically I live in an area that's hostile towards homosexuality. But curious guys are a HUGE turn on for me, I can even say a fetish! ;-)

2007-04-18 05:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

A lot of young guys found it interesting when at school the get a hand job from the schools queer

2007-04-20 10:01:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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