Have you thought about it?

Question

Other than knowing that his parents own a dry cleansers I would like to know more about Cho's home life maybe that can give the authorities more insight on why he was so full of rage, everyone interviewed talked about nothing except how angry he appeared, unless he was schizophrenic and dilusional that anger had to have been brewing a very long time. When did it start and whats the origin?

Answer 1

It is already out there . . .
He was very poor around a bunch of rich kids (relatively) ,
And hostility from that experience is common .

Been to college , witnessed it , especially in the dorm life .

Answer 2

Human beings are so complex that who can answer this question?

Not even Cho, if he were alive, can answer it.

Like everyone else, he might feel he can't explain it to anyone, as he can't explain it to himself.

Can you explain to yourself why you act the way you do, in good and bad actions, every time you ponder them?

When you help a little old lady to cross the road, do you care for her? Are you doing it because she is so nice-looking and likable and remind you of your own granny? Are you doing it for God? Are you doing it because one should be a nice person? Are you doing it to admire yourself? Are you doing it because the person you are in love with is watching? Are you doing it automatically because all your life, your parents and friends do it, so it is the right thing to do? Are you doing it for pure motives or selfish motives? What is a pure motive?

See how complex a person can be?

If you were Cho, and were still alive and analysing yourself, would you be asking hundreds of questions?

< I am disadvantaged. Everyone knows I am poor.
Because the lecturers are giving me bad marks, and I don't deserve it.
They hate us Asians. They give only good marks to the white guys.
I have to do another year in school and I have already run out of money.
I promised my folks to come home soon with a degree and not waste their money and it looks like I'll never get it.
That sneaky bastard told my girlfriend that I am not good enough for her.
They all hate me and look down on me. They say I'm stupid.
My father beat me terribly that day when I was ten years old for something I didn't do, and my brains got busted and I cannot study now, and it is all his fault and now he expects me to get a degree and it is all his doing that my mind is gone and he has the gall to expect me to climb to success when he has taken away my ladder ... >>



None of all this is true of course. I am making up all this. Besides, most guys don't think like this. They cannot understand themselves or other people. They are not in touch with their own feelings and reasons for their actions. Most women can, so they are less aggressive and can empathise and instinctively know when other people are wounded and whether to stay silent to avoid further conflict.

Most of us who brood like this over some matter will end up thinking nonsense and invent lots of things in their minds which are completely untrue.
Or if true, they are unnecessary to brood over.

There is someone called the Devil, believe it or not. And he is the Father of Lies. And he whispers to all of us to think the worse of ourselves and other people -- to destroy us.

And he makes you and me forget he exists, or he is a fairy tale figure, and something in childhood like Santa Claus which we can throw away when we grow up. So that when bad things happen, we will least suspect him as the culprit for causing the disaster and chaos.

How to remedy this? Simply by stopping your bad thoughts. Never think bad of yourself or anybody. Don't hate and resent insults or slights. Give yourself to God and shame the Devil.

When you have decided that, true peace will come at once!

Answer 3

That might help. You could also dig in on how he live as a person, or how people interacted with him, or how he views things. You could ask his friends if he had any. That anger must have originated from somewhere. Even delusional people wasn't born delusional.

Hope that helps. Good luck! ^_^

Answer 4

I'm sure we will continue to find out more and more about him, his family and background as this story continues. He seemed to live in his own little world and write about killings and death a lot. He must have some very deep seeded problems.

Answer 5

i agree