I was with this man but never go to a hotel room but talk only,but I broken off with him after I found out he also with a woman at work, he use our old Google groups address to talk with her at work about sex and have sex at the work place and going to have sex at a hotel, he did not know I still can get in to the groups to see everythings they write if I want to, should I tell his wife about it?
2007-04-18 05:00:41 · 15 answers · asked by sska 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Speaking from the perspective of a person whose husband cheated on her... I think you should tell his wife. It is not fair to her and she has a lot to risk. (STD's, staying with a man who does not respect her or their marriage agreement.)
I am glad you didn't meet with this womens husband because in most cases the man is just looking for sex.
You need a person who will love you and only you. (not use you as a side dish.)
2007-04-18 05:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u'd rather talk to him first, warn him and if u find him still on the wrong way u should inform the decieved wife. There is an eastern proverb which say " A person who is hiding truth or helping someone else to hide it is like a devil" and his wife has all rights to be informed about what he does and then she decides either to continue or not! Offcourse, u should do this for their own sake not as some of the people commenting for the sake that u didnt have him in bed ... am sure ur not like that :)
2007-04-18 05:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by genetic_disorder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. You talked to him too, and whether you had sex or not your intentions were there it seems. If you are jealous of the woman he is seeing at work, why would you destroy his marriage for something he is doing? He will ruin his own life on his own without your help. Leave the man and his wife alone and move on.
2007-04-18 05:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. He started the destruction, you be the final wrecking ball. His wife has every right to know about his cheating so she can't do something. Hell, post some of their cheating transcripts. Better yet, copy a couple of pages or screen captures, create a new Yahoo account, and email them to everyone he knows, including him, his wife, the boss, his fellow employees and the sl*ut he is cheating with.
Why just wreck one persons day, make it a 3-for-all!
2007-04-18 05:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 16:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by deuell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off why would it be okay for you to talk to this married dude and not mind to tell his wife ,but when he stops talking to you and gets flirting with someone else you wanna tell sounds like your a little jealous. Maybe you should grow up and worry about yourself.
2007-04-18 05:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets think about it this way.. If u were the wife would u want someone telling you this? And would you believe that person that told you??
2007-04-18 05:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by dancer11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so am i reading this right? even though he had a wife it was okay for him to talk to you but not to someone at your work? that just doesn't seem right to me! you should confront him and let him tell her himself. he's needs to stand up and take responsibility for his action!
2007-04-18 05:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it...sounds like u are just disappointed he didn't have sex with you...why would u want to ruin the marriage..NOT YOUR PLACE...STAY OUT OF IT
2007-04-18 05:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move ON , stop wasting your time, don't you have something better to do.you shouldn't of messed around with him in the first place you knew he was married.He only wants to stick it where he can
2007-04-18 05:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋