im 29y.o. and i have never been married...this has been with me for some time now..i just wanna settle down and yet i dont even have a bf and one thing more i fear is that it may take time for me to find the partner because i dont have a closure with my ex and i still love him ...i dont even know if ill ever get married...i still want to marry my ex
2007-04-18 05:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by c g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey what is the rush?? i am 32 soon and still single....
you need time to find what you really want... not just to find someone on the street and get married....
2007-04-18 06:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by matt0424 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Find closure, move on and start over. Do not go into the dating scene with your mind set on finding a husband.....this will scare many men away, or you will end up settling just to have the All-American dream of the marriage, kids and white picket fence. You are only 29, which is young enough to not have to rush into it all. Your soul mate is out there....give him time to find you.
2007-04-18 05:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what your problem is?
YOU CANT LET GO OF YOUR EX HE DOESNT WANT YOU! IF he DID want you YOU would be with him right?
You STILL love him but he OBVIOUSLY doesnt love you.
Unitl you let go and get over him and move on is when you can find a potential husband.
Of course you dont have a bf right now! YOU are NOT emotionally avaliable.
You WONT EVER GET MARRIED if YOU DONT let go of your EX boyfriend.
2007-04-18 05:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you're going to have to find some kind of closure on your ex, otherwise you'll never be able to move forward with your life or anything else. My question is why are you so desperate to get married?
2007-04-18 05:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question????--"how do I get my ex back, how do I get married, how do I get a bf?????"
Hon, this just wreaks of someone really confused. You aren't even marriage material... Get some counseling, hon.... your head isn't even screwed on straight... Anyone still in love with the ex, ain't ready for a relationship... get real, and get some help
2007-04-18 05:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so desperate to marry ??? you are only 29 and still so young , its more important that you marry the right person then it is just to be married , if you marry the wrong one , then you might be looking for someone else at 40 !!!
2007-04-20 02:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the ex and start dating so you can find your husband.
2007-04-18 05:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have big issues. I can see why you are single.
2007-04-18 05:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋