Ok for those that have not read my questions before
my hubby packed up and walked out 6 weeks ago said he wanted nothing to do with me so i ran to my moms in another state with our kids. Im Bipolar and hes wanted me to get help for it for 6 yrs. I feel he is not motivated and needs direction
well as i said he wanted nothing to do with me then it changed to be that he wanted me to bring the kids back and try to be friends for them. lately its changed to come back we can try again if we go super slow like see each other a few days a week and see where it goes if we can fall into a heathy love.
I've told him I want him back .
I dont know if he really wants to try or just saying that to get me to move back. every1 says im nuts to go back to him he doesnt treat me like im important to him but I think that just an act he puts on just like he always said that if ihad sex with some1 else it wouldnt matterIt did I tested it with his friend he says reaction is 'cause id freak if was him
2007-04-18 04:56:24 · 8 answers · asked by Snowflake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I know it was wrong to do it with his friend
2007-04-18 04:58:00 · update #1
I would suggest that both of you look at the mistakes you both have made, accept them, forgive yourselves and each other and move on and if you can't forget about it.
2007-04-18 05:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most important are your children. They need their father whether you are together or not. Do not deprive your children of a relationship with their father for your own satisfaction. Your mental health is equally important so I cannot stress enough that you get help and/or medication for this. Your job as a mother is to put your children first, no matter how much grief it causes you. Move back to your state and start over again. If your marriage works, it works. If not, then move on but put your children at the top of your priority list!
2007-04-18 05:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try visiting a doctor for the bipolar disorder....after acquiring some medication and getting it regulated, this may take a few months....then try again with hubby...
It would appear from your writing, that you need some assistance....I hope you get this help.
2007-04-18 05:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and dont go back because it will not change. you need to relize how you deserve to be treated and it shouldnt be that way, i know the heart wants what it wants but its allways gonna want to be loved and i dont think he really loves you because he would just want you back period. you should get yourself couseling and work on fixing you, for you and your kids. dont worry about him right now because thats who he's worrying about. You do you. Then when you finally do get with someone you'll do it right.
2007-04-23 18:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by sacredkitti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help for your sake and your children. Concentrate on you because there isnt anything more important than your children. Men come and go. Your children came from you and will always be yours.
2007-04-24 22:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once its been done there is no way to mend it there will always be something to stop this thing. you need to start new get on meds and take the kids and file for divorce and get support from him that is probably what hes thinking right now and trying to get you done. yepper, hes not stupid get moveing fast.
2007-04-24 14:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the 1 acts bi-polar. Are U sure U R?? I would get help wherever U r and then reconsider him???
2007-04-25 17:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such Drama! Stay where you are, it well save you from having to move back in a month or sooner.
2007-04-18 05:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋