I converted to muslim and had a run away marriage at age of 18. Things were ok initially fo 2 years.After he got a job in a branded perfume Co. He was in market out doors all time, i could understand the pessue he had to handel the merchandising he left at 8 am and came at 9 pm. I went on for some time he had stopped getting close to me fo 8 months and evey time i spoke to him of his work and the matte he just said im tired and turned his back to me and slept. He literally bhaved as if there is no intimate life at all btwn couples. I too stated gonig to wok and the situation remained the same. The story b4 this is lengthy but the main prob stats now. From the place we live to the place i wok took 2 hours to travel after he droped me he went to his work and so in the evening picked me up and we drove straight home. When concieved after we intimate after sharp 8 months till then even being next to me he behaved as im not his wife!
2007-04-18 04:55:17 · 2 answers · asked by anaisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i woked all my 9 omths just coz he even besides earning good said money was not enough. He made me withdraw money fom my acct telling to buy a flat in India in joint. But due to some reasons he booked it only on his name.So he pays the loan.He use to hit me kick me when got angry and fustrated and thretened to kill if i spoke to my family or his .My son now 2 ys old saw him hitting me & duplicated the same.I left home finally coz was tired to xplain him to rectify his bhavior but he ignored.There was a time when me and my son severly ill needed help & he use to leave us in evening to meet his friend who actually taught him to how to dominate wives this guy was his new fined ship & he 2was going thu maritial probs! My hsbnd hesitated to evn walk with me in malls telling i dnt look good like the girls woking in his Co. But always swore on god tht he was havng no rltnships...I habe left hme & applied for divorce my lawyer says if i cant gve witness ill not get divoce! i hve no wtnes. Help
2007-04-18 05:10:29 · update #1
If counseling is an option, it would be worth a try. If you're unable to communicate together, you actually have no marriage. I expect his thoughts on marriage are quite different than what one would consider to be the norm.
2007-04-18 05:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him....
2007-04-18 04:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋