Have you ever been to a point in your life where when someone treats you really badly....but its like you´re so used to the bad treatment, you´re not even suprised and after things have cooled down a little you dont even bother asking for an apology or talking to them about what happened because you know that they dont care or see that they´ve done anything wrong anyway?
Its like your numb to the feelings you should be feeling, except for rage, but even that is bottled up?
2007-04-18 04:16:38 · 22 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thank you so much everyone for all your caring answers...i really appreciate them alot, from the bottom of my heart.
2007-04-19 12:47:37 · update #1
It happens to a lot of people. Why ask for an apology from someone if they don't think what they did was wrong? It would only be a fake apology. Give YOURSELF the closure that you need, if they are not willing to give it to you. Deal with the situation,within yourself. Never keep rage or fury bottled up. It will only cause further damage. You have to be able to deal with things and move foreward.If you don't, the consequences can be brutal and never ending. If you are at this point, you need to distance yourself from this person or these people, if the situation can not be rectified. It is obviously not a good idea to be around them,if they hurt you so much.You only hurt yourself further,by feeling numb to things.
2007-04-18 04:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...finally you get to the point one day where you ask yourself why you tolerate such bad treatment...You're a kind, caring individual who doesn't deserve that. Then you have the "final showdown" because you really have figured out that you are worth more.
How do I know? I put up with the same crap for years, my self-esteem was lower than whale poop. After I made the decision to put a stop to it, I felt liberated and finally free. I have never looked back or regretted it.
2007-04-18 04:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pam C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I actually think in a bizarre way it's a good place to be.Once you stop caring, and are no longer so emotional about the situation that's usually the easiest time to leave the relationship.
2007-04-18 04:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by dcdcdcdc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it it is your other half you are talking about, it may be time to move on. Only you can put a stop to bad treatment. Do not allow people to hurt you over and over, you deserve better.
2007-04-18 04:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I think everyone may go through that at one time or another. But it's really not good for you to go through that. I think you should remove yourself from the situation and don't let that person abuse you that way. You deserve better than that.
2007-04-18 04:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, my son's dad made me feel that way so many times...I got so used to it...I wouldn't even care what was said or done...I was numb and just used to being treated that way....
I wanted so many things to happen to him but I just prayed for things to get better in my life and for me to move on....And I did....
2007-04-18 04:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know exactly what you're saying. I even sometimes think that maybe I did or said something wrong. Or I hate it when they misinterpret something that they think I might have said only for them to blame me ,when actually their misconception was wrong and then they don't want to try to settle it. MEN!!!!
2007-04-18 04:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by stoutunicorn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a syndrom. Prisoners get it. I think it's called the Stockholm syndrom based on a condition that someone started to sympathize with her captors. I could be wrong about the name of it.
2007-04-18 04:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh yes.. my ex boyfriend is a wonderful example of that, i'm sure a billion other people can relate to that.. oh well its made me a stronger and better person.. i took that torture and grew from it, i didnt keep it bottled up inside. i took it in, learned patience and so many other things.. and now i can say i'm a stronger human being.
2007-04-18 04:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop talking to the person.. If it's a friend they aren't a real friend.. If it's family that would be a little harder to deal with.
2007-04-18 04:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋