my dad is 42 and has had two long relationship both lasting twelve years both woman have screwed him up my mum took all his money and me away and his ex wife used to beat me and she took 67 thousand from him when he worked for three years on a house that she wonted. why do they think hes a push over?
2007-04-18 03:53:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
becos people of both sexes these days are greedy and only want you to see what they can get out of you, if you got nothing then they dont want you.......
men are worse than hobo tramps cos they let the women rob their houses and cars
and the women want more and more, they want men with plenty of money to splash on them and fancy houses so they can get off them later on when they take them for a ride,,,,
im not like that by the way, and im single x
2007-04-18 04:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K C there seems to be some BIG issue here when you say both woman walked over your dad with both relationships lasting 12 years Either your Dad was happy or he was just buying time for being involved with anybody for that period of time things had to working out you say money was the issue but money does not buy happiness an I think your Dad was an you were not
2007-04-18 11:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this. You have to keep in mind that you don't know every in and out of your dad's relationships. People only treat us the way WE allow them to. Perhaps your dad is choosing the wrong types of women.But since you care for him, maybe it would be a good idea for you two to talk about this.Perhaps you might help him in his next choice.
2007-04-18 10:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that nice guys always finish last.Thank God he has you to watch a bit over him.Talk to him and let him know to be careful next time when it comes to dating.Good Luck an may God bless the both of you.
2007-04-18 10:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Michael Jackson 1958 - FOREVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is, he could of stood up so not to be down trodden. It's something you should be asking your dad, not blaming the women. Women are opportunists. Everyone wants the easy way.
2007-04-18 10:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he more than likely is, passive people aren't hard to point out. And he might be too trusting, which makes it even easier.
Hopefully if he ever finds himself getting married again he will demand to file a prenuptial.
2007-04-18 10:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They *think* he's a pushover because he *is* a pushover. One took "all" his money and the other took $67k. That's, like, the definition of pushover. I hope he has learned his lesson, and that he will do a better job of protecting himself financially in the future!
2007-04-18 10:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce dad to Family Counseling, it's time to explore personal issues and values...
2007-04-18 10:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a soft heart, or a guilty concience. He may also have a self esteem issue. In any case he let's these things happen.
2007-04-18 10:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by jknapp52055 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad maybe coming off as a sucker for love and a women can see that and act on it.
2007-04-18 10:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋