OK. It was my Grandma's birthday and my bestfriend wanted to get together. I told her we couldn't do it that day b/c it was her birthday like I just told you. She said that HER grandmother would let her go to her friends house on HER grandmother's birthday. So we had this big argument. My bestfriend just doesn't really I guess understand things. Then she got mad and started saying if we should be friends anymore. So after the birthday party I emailed her and told her that my grandmother had tears coming down her cheek b/c she was soooo delighted with what we did. Then my bestfriend apologized. Would you have done that? Would have argued with me over my grandmother's birthday?
2007-04-18 03:20:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I invited her, but she didn't want to come.
2007-04-18 03:44:53 · update #1
No you need to spend time with family even more with the older generation. At least your friend apologized.
2007-04-18 03:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have experienced the same thing with a female friend and No,I would not miss my grandmas birthday because family comes first before friends. You are right and your friend knows she wrong ,but she likes to be right. A grandparents birthday is very important as it is to anyone. I wouldn't miss a family memebers birthday for a friend. I had the same problem with one of my female friends she wanted me to chose over my family and her. I chose my family and she threw a big fit. Don't let your friend tell you whats right and wrong. She should appologize for being so arrogant and rude. I would definetly argue , if she does something this selfish next time tell her take a hike. I wouldn't put up with this girl . You can do alot better with friends. Grandparents are only her for so long and if you miss there birthday and there gone you will regret it for life. Hope this helped
2007-04-18 03:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend has to understand that on special occasions, your family has to come first. I want to know why you didn't invite her to the birthday party? Maybe her feelings were hurt that you hadn't invited her. i don't know if she knows your grandma or not, but if she's your best friend, I think she probably knows some of your family members, and I think she was probably a little hurt that you didn't at least ask her to come. I know I would have been. Also, she may have a different kind of a family, not every family drops everything when it is someone's birthday. Just try to understand her. I'm glad you guys made up.
2007-04-18 03:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, i would never do that to my best friend because family is important and she should know that! it was really wrong of your friend to do that!!! honestly if she got mad over that then she must not be a true friend because true friend is some one that can understand you and whats going on!! plus whats wrong with doing it the next weekend your not going anywhere... i mean its not like yall arnt going to stop being friends in a week!!! next time just tell her that yall can do it next weekend and just dont make any plans!! she should understand that family is important to people its not just about your friends all the time!!
2007-04-18 03:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your bestfriend I wouldn't argue with you at all!
It's your grandmother for god's sake! Why would I even stop you from visting her or celebrating her birthday ?!?!
Your friend should seriously stop thinking about herself and care about her best friend!
2007-04-18 03:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by silvs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
would i have argued with you over your Grandmas bithday? Are you serious? Who the heck gives a flying rats as#!!
Yahoo Staff: Some of these people seriously need mental help, quickly.
2007-04-18 03:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey queen,
tell me one thing-Who told u that Best friends dont argue ?? :) . if they wont then who will :) hey no matter what happens freinds are always there with you,C your best friend apologized to you na. . its just the case that your friend is very possesive about you thats it.Try to Understand your friend.
2007-04-18 03:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Swadesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my best friend has never done that to me. But my best friend did this to me..... June of last year i was having my birthday party and She knew that me and my boyfriend was dating at the time, and she knew that we just lost our virginity With each other. But i was drinking and ,my boyfriend was drunk, my best friend don't drink. And we stayed up all night watching t.v. At like 2 in the morning I told my boyfriend to come and sit by me. So he did. i layed my head on his leg and fell asleep. I woke up like at 4. And my boyfriend was sitting on the other couch with my best friend. So I set up and i started watching t.v. and my boyfriend got up and came and set by me. So then i asked my best friend if she wanted to go to bed and she said yea. So that morning when i got up i went in the living room and set down on the couch. she was sitting there like she did something bad.(i knew that she did something bad b/c she did something with one of her friends and acted a weird way like she was that morning.) So my boyfriend left and me and my best friend went to my friends house to visit them, when we came back to my house she told me that my boyfriend fingered her!! I was so pissed off, but i knew i had to stay calm. But i have been friends with her sense. and i can never trust her with one of my boyfriends.
2007-04-18 03:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but she should respect your comitment to your family. Family is always more important than friends, cuz with friends you can always catch up later.
2007-04-18 04:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i would'nt have done that but now that she has apologized, its ok .you are best friends and so you can forgive her.and be friends forever.
2007-04-18 03:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by aa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋