Well, it's my 23rd birthday today. I have been staying at my boyfriends a lot lately, but Ive still been putting in my time at home w/ chores and stuff. I go to school full time and work part time at a gym, but my boss is REALLY flaky. So this morning, I was at my boyfriends house, when my mother called and started SCREAMING at me that I was supposed to be at work and that "that stupid ***** of a boss was calling the house before 7". There is only one problem with this. I SWEAR on my life my boss never told me I had to be in . She said she would call me with my hours and never called. So my boss is insane, and my mother told me that I shouldnt even come home today because I "****** up again" (which is not the case, ive been nothing but good for the past months) and now Im really upset because its my birthday and Im not even allowed to go home. How should I handle this situation?
P.S. - My mother has a terrible temper, and I think thats a lot of the reason why I dont stay there often
2007-04-18 02:14:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well my boss has my cell phone number, and I only gave her my home phone number in case of emergency considering it's gym. I asked to call my cellphone and my cellphone only and she just wont listen
2007-04-18 02:32:05 · update #1
Now may be it is time for you to make some grown up decisions. Take mom out to dinner, or lunch, and have a talk with her. Tell her that you would like for the two of you to get along better, and that instead of fussing, you hope as adults, that you and her, can discuss things. Tell her that you love her. and that you are trying to do the right things. Ask her what is it that makes her so mad at you? say is it me? Say mom, lets, just bring everything to the open! Blessings!
2007-04-18 02:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your boss have your boyfriend's number? If that is where you spend most of your time, how would you know she never called to give you your work schedule. Relying on your mom to be your answering service is not right. She could have missed the call herself, and is cranky because she is being put in the middle of a situation she feels you should be dealing with yourself.
2007-04-18 09:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋