Can anyone recommend the best way to convince a homosexual aquaintance he can convert to a normal life?

Question

I am very worried about his spiritual future and health, and I know its a choice (not to mention disgusting), so what's the best way to snap him out of this phase

Why are all you people saying that he is my friend, no way i'd be friends with someone like that (at least until he becomes hetero). I said he was an acquaintance.

Answer 1

Thanks for joining us in the fight against LGBT bigotry, hatred and prejudice!

Yes, you are right, people who claim to be "Christian" and then spew such hatred really are hypocrites.

Of course I agree that God makes people LGBT or straight, and both are just variations of sexual orientation, neither being more "right" or "moral" than the other. Yes, we are agreed that sexual orientation does not change over time, is not a "choice," and does not need to be "cured."

Which PFLAG chapter do you belong to?

Answer 2

Oh, for F_U_C_K_S sakes!

He's better off without a prick like you forcing him to be heterosexual!

It's almost certainly NOT a phase. Don't worry about his future and health (spiritual or not), worry about yours!

You can't snap him out of it, end of. Loads of gay people have tried converting to a *scathing*NORMAL life, and it's not worked.

The reason? You can't change sexuality!

Go away, think about what I've said and run back to the pits of hell where you belong!

Did I forget to mention I'm a lesbian with gay and straight friends?

Answer 3

So I guess that means convert to be like you then? Who put you in charge of deciding what is normal and what is not? Do not worry about others people's future and health. When you are perfect then maybe you will have some spare time to devote to others (but you have a long way to go with all that judgement and criticism). Work on yourself don't work others over. And beware of protesting too much it just makes all the rest of us think your gay!

Answer 4

First of all, I'm a heterosexual, so please keep that in mind when I tell you the following.

You are asking someone not to be what they are. The notion that you can "convert" someone from homosexuality is nonsense. Some will claim that they have, but this is bull-oney. Most of the people that have gone through this have NEVER really changed - they just suppress the desires that are already there. Stop worrying about your friend's salvation and starty being more concerned with your own.

Answer 5

You a s s h o l e.

He is living a normal life.

You are the one who needs to adjust for the benefit of your own spiritual future and health.

Start by getting an education.

You are entitled (as a free person) to your view but have you heard of tolerance, love and respect for others?

Take a look at your own ineptitude before you criticise others as a result of your minority (and quite disgusting homophobic) view.

Homosexuality (and likewise heterosexuality) is not a phase, it is determined before birth in the womb.

Homosexuals and heterosexuals are born perfect.

Snap out of YOUR bigotted mindset , else go to church and pray for forgiveness.

As per your ammendment, I am heterosexual and there is no way that I could call YOU a friend or even an acquaintance so long as you continue to be so disrespectful of others.

Currently you do not deserve the friendship of your acqaintance and he is fortunate not to count you amongst his friends.

God bless you and may he forgive you.

Answer 6

You, like President Dogfuk, are about as ignorant as you can get.

1. Spiritual future, my hairy @$$. Your god kneels before me and licks my feet.

2. A choice can be made when buying something, or did you CHOOSE to be heterosexual???

3. Disgusting is what your IQ is.

4. The best way to snap him out of it? Kill yourself, so you won't be around him.

Oh, and Cheers.

Answer 7

How can he be an "aquaintance" but yet you care about him so much? It's not a "phase". It's like asking a seahorse to not inseminate itself. Or an orange not to be orange. What you need to do is some soul-searching for yourself, instead of trying to get somebody to "snap out of a phase". Maybe after you read all of these answers, you'll snap out of your "phase". If you think it's so disgusting, stop watching him!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

just because it wasn't Adan and Steve!!!

I'm 100% straight, however each to their own, I don't think it's even about personal choice, i really do believe that most people who are homosexual are born this way, and they know that they are different when they are growing up.

If you are that disgusted by it, walk away - you are not a friend to that person and i don't believe that you could dicuss the issues without getting worked up or ruining the friendship anyway.

i would also like to add 2 things:

1) Not all homosexuals practice anal intercourse - so do disagree with this practice
2) there are loads of battyboys in the Catholic Church hense all the child abuse

1) I do have friends who are Home

Answer 9

If I was your aquaintance I would F**K you right off. You are truly the most boring bigoted individual I have had the mis pleasure of encountering . get some therapy fast or better still a boyfriend if you can

Answer 10

i dont even know why i'm responding to such an idiotic question. you are the one who needs to convert your mind and let people live their lives to what is normal to them. So snap out of your phase and realize that what you want for someone is not going to be. What is "normal" to you is equivalent to what is "normal to him". It is not a choice that people make, they are born that way. Makes me wonder why closed minded people didn't come with closed mouths too.

Answer 11

That's a nonsensical question - any concept of 'a normal lifestyle' is subjective. One could ask what the best way to convince a heterosexual that they should convert to homosexuality.

It's a ridiculous question due to the fact that sexuality is not a choice.

By referring to your oppinion that homosexuality is 'disgusting' also reveals your position as a bigot.