but my really close female friend wants a piece of me too.she is just like me,we are so alike my friend and i.she gets jealous when im on the phone with my girlf friend or any other female,throws tantrums and stuff.today she hasnt called me or even sent a message.
what to do?
2007-04-17 23:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by 9k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well in this type of situation you should do what you feel in your heart is right. If you love your ole' lady then you need to tell your friend that and tell her that nothing can happen between you two. You should let her know that you are happy with your ole' lady. On the other hand if you having feelings for her then maybe it is time to sit down and think about this and let your ole' lady know that things aren't going to work out between you to. Then go from there.
2007-04-17 23:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious she is jealous as she wants to be your girlfriend or else you have a really close friendship and she sees ure current gf taking you away from her. You have to sit down and talk to her and assure her you will always be her friend but she has to accept the fact that you have a gf and if she cant then you are going to have end your relationship with her if she cant be happy for you. A true friend would.it cant be good for your gf either
2007-04-18 06:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you will always be her friend and just because you have a girlfriend now doesn't mean you will never talk to her again. She has to understand though that you do need to talk and spend time with your girl. I mean if she had a man I'm sure you'd be happ for her so just let her know how you would feel if it were the other way around..good luck..been there!!
2007-04-18 06:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talk to her. Tell her that you have a girlfriend already and you just want to be friends. Make sure she understands or if she doesn't maybe she isn't worth having for a friend.
2007-04-18 06:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta pick: Friend? or Girlfriend?
Personally, i would pick your gf, cuz thats the...normal thing to do. Then you need to tell your friend 'sorry, but you need to back off, i really like this person bla and nothing you say or do is gonna change that.'
2007-04-18 07:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I'm very sure you love the attention too,I mean why worry if she has not phoned you today,she is not your girlfriend,I say it is the forbidden fruit you want her so bad because you cant have her.don't let it get to you.
2007-04-18 07:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by no2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you as her crutch, or she likes you more than a friend. You need to ask her what is up. A true friend would be happy for you.
2007-04-18 06:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like your close friend? If yes, see which one do you like best and which one do you go on well with......then decide. It's all in your hands boy!!!
2007-04-18 07:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
balancing females is the most difficult thing to do. try not to talk to the other when you are before another
2007-04-18 07:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by vIcKy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you value her friendship alot but your are seeing someone and if that behavior contunies you will have to stop talking to her for awhile intil she is over her feelings for u
2007-04-18 06:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by sweetone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋