It happens all the time I am seeing someone.It wont be long before he starts irritating me and will not be interested in the relationship.And at the same time I wil be love with onother guy even that guy has not asked me out. Please help me I really am tired of this.I want a steady relatioship.
2007-04-17 23:38:20 · 13 answers · asked by Taniar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should try me :P
2007-04-18 00:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by vIcKy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem may be deeper than just your hair. Things like hair loss and other physical things really only start to bother people when they are already bothered with something else or are starting to lose interest. When someone is really in love, they don't care about things like that. She may not really love you but who knows. You have to talk to her about it and ask her if it's really just the hair or if she's unhappy with your relationship. Good luck. On a side note, have you tried shaving your head completely? I find that men usually look better completely bald than with just the patches on the side.
2016-05-17 23:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by raguel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some kind of intimacy issues. Confront your feelings for your father.
You want the relationship that you can never have. When you actually get it you feel bored, and smothered.
I've known lots of women like this. The only way to cure it is slowly, over time, realize that the feelings of boredom you are getting are not true boredom, but your not wanting to be close.
The test for this is see how you feel when a guy says "I hate you, and never want to see you again!" = Relief. let's you off the hook. And when you are with someone, you want someone else, because it puts more distance between you and who you are with in your mind.
Good luck, it's definitely a tough situation.
2007-04-17 23:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't push yourself.
you've living free.that's the best way.
you cannot stop or change how you feel ,but you can act on it.
there are many of us out here that get bored quite quickly too.sometimes when this happens we take breaks or go someplace else.clear our heads,sometimes we bail on our partners.
relax OK,slow down.learn yourself too.get to know you.
you might learn some new things....or get bored lol!
2007-04-17 23:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think too much thats why, i believe if u make up ur mind that this is the one person u want to be with in a steady relationship, then i dont see the reason why u cant do that.
2007-04-17 23:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound trite, but you do not sound happy with yourself. Do you know who you are? Are you comfortable being alone? Do you have any fears about commitment? What was your parents relationship like? Are you afraid of repeating some bad history?
It is time for some self evalutation.
2007-04-17 23:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you must make some compromises. Or wait till the guy comes along who does not irritate you.
2007-04-17 23:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right one yet. You have been settling instead of waiting for someone that really sparks your attention. One day, when you least expect it, the right guy will come along.
2007-04-17 23:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be too critical. You said they start doing things that "irritate" you, so be more loose, relaxed, easygoing and you won't have to worry about that stuff.
2007-04-18 00:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u r exactly the same as me! I no, it is really irritating and i no exactly how u feel! Sorry that my answer is no help..!
2007-04-17 23:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably dive in too fast and too soon.
learn to make the guy romance you, instead of heading straight to the bedroom.
2007-04-17 23:47:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋