My ex and I finally put a misunderstanding behind us; We are trying to rebuild but we have in the meantime destroyed so much and are keeping in touch over distance; it is hard to know what to say or do. What do you think of this?
I wanted to say email is a challenge for me, because I tend to rely so strongly on seeing someone. It ended up working before like I had never imagined it could, but I feel a little lost now, because the many breaks in the last year have damaged that feeling of you always being there for me which had grown so strong through the previous year. I am not saying this to be discouraging, but just because I thought it might be a good thing as part of a fresh start to let you know how I really feel a little more directly. For me right now, it would feel just good to hear from you, a word here and there; frequency is better than length. Please let me know if there is anything I can on my end; it is too bad we missed communicating at a crucial moment 4 us both.
2007-04-17 22:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good luck!
2007-04-17 22:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People come in / out of your life for a reason, it's all part of the devine plan that our souls have to learn, if you survive this then you'll have a stronger relaitonship at the end, if not then he was ment to leave to make way for you to have a deeper stonger connection with someone else, whatever happens and i wish you luck, you'll take the lessons from this relationship into the next, good luck :)
2007-04-18 05:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by CLAIRE P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's adequate. If there is no love between you, why should you have to put that in your letter? I think the burden of maintaining the relationship lies with him, so it seems. You've also left open a door with your last sentence, which is very good. Good luck, and I hope the emotions in your spirit will be quenched.
2007-04-18 05:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt drawn to this question. I honestly feel for you.
Your feelings are keeping you attached to something unrealistic. Don't work it out with him work it out yourself.
Do this by communicating with others within your vicinity.
Make small talk with other guys, get on a roll with them socially. Learn to have a joke and laugh with people. Let yourself enjoy your direct surroundings because that is your real world and circumstances. Purposely go out and get social feedback from people so you can have balanced and provocative perspectives that stimulate you.
Be inspired by what you can see in front of you.
2007-04-18 05:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by crr_rndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r going back to the same pit u knew was unnegotiable the last time. dont people learn from their mistakes.
2007-04-18 05:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by yoyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to add something about how much you love him.
2007-04-18 05:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who are you you sound like my wife but if you are start talking to me its as easy as that LENA
2007-04-18 05:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dlb69037 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this letter is fine..i hope it will work for you
2007-04-18 05:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by only_a_name2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋