I hate my sister. The very thought of her makes me want to murder her.?

Question

My parents always take her side. I am the unloved one who gets scolded for what she does. She scratches my hands and pulls my hair, kicks me on my stomach, chest. I feel so sick. I just want her dead and out of my life. What should I do ? My hands are all bruised and paining. I am getting married in 2 months. What should I do to get rid of the scars ? I am 25 and my sis 20.

Thank you guys for all your kind replies and concern. I really mean it. I feel wanted and loved.

Answer 1

It may be rough but never wish death on anyone especially, not your siblings! the Lord is putting you in a position where you will soon be removed from the wicked and the evilness that you feel at this time! Congratulations on your new life 'look at it as a new beginning."Stay away from your sister in the mean time,she's just a mean spiteful,jealous person and your parents shouldn't uphold such foolishness!! Anyway as far as the scratches and bruises,go to the nearest drug store and get you some witch Hazel. When you use it be very consistent and I guarantee very good results!!

Answer 2

your parent take the side of your sister because she's still imature even thought she has 20 ,if she was mature she would not have pull your hair or kicks you on your stomach,chest and all that stuff.if your only two sisters in your family that mean that you have been more fortunate than her ,maybe she is not getting what she is asking from your parents because she's irresponsible .when she think of it she might say that your parents love you more than her,she simply jealous of you.let her continue to be immature if she wants to,think about your wedding only yo will have a new life in two month.for the scars go to see a doctor or buy a cream in the pharmacy.good luck.

Answer 3

Your sister is very immature. She is probably jealous of you, my best advice is to stay away from her if she is physically hurting you. Herbal remedies really help but my understanding of scars is that they are there forever. To help you feel better meditating is really good i know i sounds funny but it's true! I sometimes hate my sisters (i have 6) when I was younger they told me I had horse hair, big feet, big head, big nose they could always find something wrong with me, they even let there boyfriends make fun of me it wore me down so much and really hurt my self esteem. I started to prefer being at school then be with them cause there people thought i was great. But you can't choose your family and you just have to focus on the good things but in your case It's really bad i mean a 20 yr old pulling hair and scratching? She needs professional help. The best thing that i can think of is to keep away from her at least your getting married and can use that to keep away from her.

Answer 4

Use neosporin extra strength in the cream instead of the ointment. Cream is better and heals the scars faster, the extra strength is for the pain. (triple antibiotic cream) Call one of your friends and ask them if you can stay with them until the wedding. Tell your parents that you love them, but you have been stressed out lately and need to be able to talk to your friends. Your sister is probably jealous of all the attention you are getting due to the wedding. Congratulations!!! You won't have to put up with all of that very soon!!!

Answer 5

I feel for YOU! I think that maybe your sis is a little, over board!!! I also think the sickness you feel is letting your sister take control of you, she can not,, and she will want to as long as you act like a kid! Sorry but it is true, please know that I'm not in any way against you! Time is hard now, she needs to see that you are the one in control of your life! To kill her would only add to you being at "small". let her go and see just how wonderful you can be instead of any "one" else "(is)" in your life, There is a higher power, the one you learn to be yours, just take your time , and the hair you pull, understand it is just a way that you are trying to find "yourself". Always be nice and you will find that it will be kind to you! trust me!!!

Answer 6

look to het in the eye and slap her once maybe u r negativie and she feel sur weakness although u r not weak but cuz u r kind and dont like troubles if u do so u will c the difference and dont care about what ur parents say they r encouriging her to do so ...and never ever let ur fiance know what is happening cuz he will hate her too and in the future he will disrepect ur family and may beat u too

Answer 7

I am 25 and my sis 20.~~Have a race to see who can act their age first it's a safer form of sibling rivalry : |

Leave your parents out of it.

Answer 8

Your old enough - get out of the house. your fiance and yourself should have a place to live lined up by now - separate yourself from her- she needs mental help if she's still beating you up at her age. you need to get the hell out of the house and stay away from her insane games and move on with your man and be happy - wear gloves at your wedding - that's my suggestion in regards to the scars, or rub vitamin e ointment on them every day to try to fade them away but that type of treatment takes a long time. Please, get out

Answer 9

i think u should just move out of the house cos when u get married u will definitely move out but two months is too far.

Answer 10

If she knows you are jealous of her or mad at her, she will enjoy it more. Just act like you don't care. Send yourself flowers and candy and letters in the mail. Make her & your parents think people love you WAY more! Make HER jealous!!
--Stormstarter1207--