2007-04-17 19:23:57 · 24 answers · asked by phleurs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and ummm,im only eleven so no,PEGGY S,i do not have large breasts
2007-04-17 19:31:30 · update #1
im not asking for it and i wont bother trying to tell them to stop,again,im not the only one.
2007-04-17 19:33:59 · update #2
umm,Rusty rose,your gross.
2007-04-24 13:23:03 · update #3
Look at him and see if he has a sneaky kind of dirty look.He may be doing it as a friend ,or not as a friend.Or he may be Gay.See if you can pick up anything from his face.If you don't like it,simply stay back,push yourself away.
2007-04-17 19:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends do you know these guys ? or do they just do this ? regardless, it is how comfortable **You are with it . since you are asking this question I know that you are not very comfortable with this. If you are not comfortable with guys hugging you just tell them straight..."no offense and I think your cool but I just dont feel comfortable with guys hugging me " that shoud do it . If they dont stop tell them directly "don't hug me anymore" if they still continue time to take action and go to an authority figure at the school . hope this helps. like I said it is what you are comfortable with .
2007-04-17 19:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by anna w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want them to, then it's not okay.
You could turn and give the sideways hug.
You could put out your hand to shake when they approach.
You could tell them you'd rather not be hugged. This one is harder, but it is good practice for asserting yourself in other situations.
Classes on assertiveness can be helpful on this sort of thing. Here's a link getting across some of the ideas:
Good luck.
http://www.couns.uiuc.edu/brochures/assertiv.htm
2007-04-17 19:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it isn't good for your friends to come up and hug you. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then I would ask them to stop. If it doesn't then it's just a friendly gesture to let you know that they like you.
2007-04-17 19:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just a friendly gesture and you're okay with it then I don't see anything wrong with it. If at anytime it starts to make you feel uncomfortable then you should put a stop to it and tell them to stop.
2007-04-25 13:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really upto you and your idea of personal space. Alot of people can't handle thier personal space being invaded when somone goes to give them a hug. If you do not like the feeling of being hugged let them know.
2007-04-17 19:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by lostie_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unless they are just trying to cop a feel on your large breasts. I am assuming that you do have them because all men love to hug women with large boobs.
2007-04-17 19:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. It's not ok. You are 11, but guess what? It's not ok at ANY age.
It's not OK.
No. If you have begun to develop breasts boys want to experience that...they want to know how it feels. That's normal,BUT don't be the guinea pig!
2007-04-25 19:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by margot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It sounds like you are very popular with the guys.
They probably find you sweet and attractive.
It's one of the greatest compliments a person can get!
2007-04-17 19:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh only if you like it, If not tell them get away from me..No that sounds me. I dont know I always see people hugging there female friends.
2007-04-17 19:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋