Ok, here's my problem. I like this one girl in my history class. We've never talked but exchanged glances. I'm pretty sure she's caught me looking at her. I'm not sure if I should make the first move because this is my problem. I keep running into her outside of class, so many times that I'm afraid she'll think I'm stalking her or something. It's not even funny how many times we run into each other, it's scary. Anyways, the last time, I was sitting on a bench, I saw her walking by again. I'm sure she saw me and I could see her sort of smiling, or maybe a smirk. What should I do in this situation? Or has it become too weird that I should just give it up?
P.S. Thanks in advance to those who answer and sorry for the long post but that was the only way I could explain the whole story.
2007-04-17 19:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by painr3li3ver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what you should do? This would make her laugh or smile.
The next time you run into her, smile really big and say, "Are you stalking me? Because if you are, I'm afraid I'll just have to ask you to keep doing it." Tell her you're kidding.
That will break the ice because it's funny.
Just say, "This is wild. I'm always running into you."
She smiles at you so that means she is atleast a little bit attracted to you at the very least.
Ask her what she's doing after school and that you would love to get to know her. Tell her you think she's very pretty and you think she's nice.
You can start a convo by asking her what her favorite band is.
What are her least favorite and most favorite classes.
Does she ride the bus to school?
What does she like to do on the weekends?
Can you join her for lunch?
I think she likes you already, so this should be easy for you.
2007-04-17 19:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up. but you should make the first move. the thing is girls are waiting for the guy to make the first move so for you to wait on her would make both of you wait. First of all you need to talk to her. If you are too shy or have no idea what to say get close to her friends. Once you get close to her friends you can get close to her. and if you are scared it's ok to be afraid just dont let it show. If a girl sees you are afraid she will most likely reject you no matter how much she might like you. That stuff just creeps them out.
2007-04-17 19:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep running into her, that's the perfect opportunity to start talking to her. Make a comment about how you guys seem to keep bumping heads. Ask to get to know her so it doesn't seem so awkward anymore. If she's nice girl and she likes you, she'll appreciate the ice-breaker. She's probably wondering the same thing you are. If she reacts negatively, you'll know she doesn't like you and you don't have to dwell on it anymore. It won't be the end of the world.
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2016-09-05 16:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i meet 3 years ago in our history class.. your story is so similar, to mine. Its funny because one day , i remember we had a test the next day, and he came to talk to my friend and I.. But before that we exchanged glances during class..(if that happens, its because there is an attraction) it was a little awkward at first. i guess you just have to be yourself, I mean what do you have to loose??? you should talk to her. good luck!
2007-04-17 19:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by RACHELORE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best do something rather than nothing. Would you rather lose the chance because it *might* be weird? The worst that would happen would be that it wouldn't work out, but if you don't try then you've got zero chance of getting anything.
2007-04-17 19:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her more than a couple of times in one day, jokingly say, "Do we actually have all of these classes close together, or are you stalking me?", and walk off.
A few days later say, "Since I have to see you all of the time anyway, why don't we have lunch together one day.?"
2007-04-17 19:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, but don't say to her that you like her too early. it'll take time. try to ask her about your lesson in your history subject. then if you notice that she's comfortable being with you, that's the time to tell about you feelings for her.
2007-04-17 19:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows by now that you like her, So just start off with small talk.
2007-04-17 19:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief!!! stand up and say "Hello, how are you doing." and go from there, no big drama here, just do it.
2007-04-17 19:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋