how do i deal with her ?she only likes one side?

Question

shes killing me. she likes only one of me and that the
gentleman" side you when u meet a person in the first day and start being polite gentle. and when i get hyper later with my friends
and start makin fun of people and pick on people
and sometimes i make jokes about her. but only between me and her alone, she kinda dislikes that. so she snaps on me. i say **** it,leave her for a while.. and then talk again she likes me at the start. then we face the same problem again. i just cant feel free with her 100%. she says its not being my self its being rude theres a diff

Answer 1

Sounds like a classic case of being to insecure to actual relate what it is you would really like to say. Been there before is why I say that. Your only fix is to be more honest with yourself so you can be honest with her... but on a subconious level chances are, you just plain don't like her, theres love there I'm sure, but as far as your brain goes, its just like eeewwww why do I deal with this girl. If not that then your dealing with the old to insecure to say what needs to be say so you revert back to a time when you didn't have that problem.....