sex and he stood me up? why would he do that after he talked all that stuff? guys what is going on?
2007-04-17 18:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing with you, he has no intention of hooking up with you again, he is just being mean. He knows it turns you on and when he has you all hot and bothered he doesn't follow through, he is just doing it to be cruel and he will probably keep doing it until you put a stop to it. Next time he tries to talk dirty to you, tell him that you have a nice young guy to do all that to you and you don't need it from him.
2007-04-17 19:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that to this one guy I used to mess around with for a few years. We would go back n' forth via email or in text messages and I would always talk dirty to him and tell him I remember how he used to do this n' that to me, and how I want him so much and to do all that again. We would set up dates and I always stood him up. I think this last time was finally the last straw for him.
The reason I stood him up was because I wasn't really that interested in him anymore. But at the time we text or emailed eachother it seemed like the right thing to do and I didn't know how to tell him I wasn't really diggin' on him anymore. I actually had someone else I was seeing too, and I was pretty happy with him.
Hopefully that gives you some insight.
2007-04-18 02:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because that's exactly what it was. "talking all that stuff", but since he's your ex it's much more complicated than that. there is a reason why you at are "ex's" and maybe he doesn't wanna cross that line again because "EX SEX" is unhealthy though everyone enjoys it until one of the ex's finds another. then again if i was talking **** too my ex about doing it and she let me i would do it.
2007-04-18 02:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by DJ FEEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that at the end of the day he is all talk and no show. It seems that if he can't put out what he tries to put up then he is not anyone you should be with.
2007-04-18 04:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was testing you. He just wanted to know that he could still have you if he wanted you. It is the male ego thing.
2007-04-18 01:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is being faithful to his new g/f..
He just wanted to embarrass you
and prove his power over you...
2007-04-18 02:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl screw him. dont ever give him sex anyways he sounds like he doesnt deserve it.
2007-04-18 02:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him you can find a guy that won't stand you up.
2007-04-18 01:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you scared him or called his bluff.. you cant scare me away so easy.. he he
2007-04-18 01:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he wanted more than just sex! Can I have ten points please?!
2007-04-18 02:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋