I'm having a hard time adapting to this world, my cousin killed himself because of a stupid teacher and students he was so lonely and he was so quiet he never talked to me, he didn't even talk to my mom or dad he just went out and played sports and so quiet all the time. Thats what my aunt said, she said that because i was asking her so many questions about him( I refuse to answer any questions regarding my cousins accident). But i need to know what to do now what is my next step towards life im so depressed im scred that someone might kill us just because my cousin killed one of their family members i have nothing to do with it. I need to know what to do now please help me im so depressed and i cant sleep :'(
2007-04-17 18:44:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got to be freaking kidding me. I really don't believe you.
2007-04-17 18:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. This has become a problem you did not create, and in the big picture, everyone knows that. I think you need to seek some professional help, as you cant carry the weight of someone elses mistake. Try to live your life to the fullest, be true to yourself and carry out a life that so many will no longer be able to do know. Live for you, and be proud of who YOU are. Im sure it will not be easy but the sun will always rise tommorrow and you can make this a better world, just for being in it.
2007-04-17 18:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are an idiot, and let me tell you why.
One if you are his cousin then you just gave people one more piece of information about you. Your profile name and possibly your email address. Now you have opened yourself to the INTERNET where there are TONS of people that have all different opinions of what happend, and there are certainly some that would like to hunt down his whole family. The saddest thing is that you are not his cousin you just want attention. And now you have attracted a lot of negative attention. So by the laws of nature you do in fact deserve to be "naturally selected" for termination of course >:)
Oh btw, that coward doesn't hold a candle to this guy
http://www.iheardyoumalachi.org/story.html
A true Martyr.
2007-04-17 18:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tourniquet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would express concern for you and tell you it is not your fault but I have nothing but contempt for you. I read your other question and you are not telling the truth. You make me feel sick. Why would you do this when people are hurting so much over this? Not only those who lost family and friends, but can you even begin to comprehend the pain and anguish that this guy's family are actually going through right now? Have a think about it and then pull your head in.
2007-04-17 19:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sad and sorry for you hon. I have no idea what I would do if I was in your shoes. You should absolutely NOT feel any sort of responsibility for his actions. You really should talk to some sort of counselor about the way that you are feeling about all of this. Don't worry about the future right at this moment, it will only stress you out more. Just focus on being there for your family, don't be afraid to reach out to them, chances are they are feeling the same way you are. If nothing else, you should definitely talk to you someone about the way you are feeling. Good luck to you, God Bless you and your family.
2007-04-17 18:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by LoVeLy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The teacher and students are not stupid and did not deserve to die.
your cousin didn't have an accident,he did it on purpose.
I suggest you get some counseling to help you in this troubled time,things like this are very hard for the family to deal with, and you do need some help.Someone to tell your fears and feelings to.
good luck
2007-04-17 18:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, continually astounding to renowned there is somebody with a sicker humorousness than i will muster available. No heavily this is poor, i understand laughter is the thank you to ease a demanding situation, yet this is basically unwell. what if between the sufferer's kinfolk or friends study this? basically bear in strategies how a lot of human beings that knew a sufferer are in all danger making use of those type of boards for convenience in situations like this, and not placed up something like this back.
2016-10-22 11:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocent people died. Cho Seung-Hui was not an innocent person. He took all those lives and then couldnt face up to it. he took the gutless way out. If you are saying you're his counsin just to get attention- you have serious issues. I dont beleive it for a second- wouldn't you go to a private councellor to avoid the media getting hold of your details???? shame...shame...shame
2007-04-17 19:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you telling the truth cause if not then you are sick and need help.
No one will blame you. People will not even know unless you tell them. Time will ease the pain that is felt right now. No one can explain what happened or even why. You can't blame yourself or any one else. He made the choice not you.
I hope that you feel better soon.
2007-04-17 18:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help .. this is too sensitive an issue to make jokes about...I figured this was not true... Sorry but you just cannot expect people to be too sympathetic to you if you post this sort of stuff on this forum... 32 people died at the hands of someone who should have had help prior to this happening. I can't understand what you're trying to achieve by doing this....
2007-04-17 18:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are one sick lying bi+ch to make something like this up
don't you get enough attention at home.What you should do
is apologize to all the people who might be reading this and to all the family members who's world has been riped apart.
Shame on you .
2007-04-17 20:02:54 · answer #11 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋