My ex and I had a huge falling out when our relationship ended. Much was said and done and we both acted out in anger. When I tried to talk to him and confront him, he deleted my emails and didn't want to talk to me anymore. I let it go and time has passed...it always bothered me and I called him and apologized but I got really emotional and told him I would email him and to please not delete it. Well...he has been online, yet the email says "unread". Does this mean he is considering it?
I want things to be ok between us, without any anomosity. We went thu alot and I helped him thru so much. Has time made him think? Or does he not care. He knows we cannot go back to the way things were...but I wanted to see if we can get past this and remain friends, he also is aware of this. Please just tell me if you were him how would you feel. I mean he could have deleted it like the rest.
2007-04-17 18:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason why he kept it is that sooner or later he is going to read it. and yeah i think that he is ok with you just not a close as before but you guys klkl. trust me i know. he prolly still hurting.
2007-04-17 18:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by destinforj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes relationships end badly , and sometimes we want to say more ( much more) but we don't get a chance to. That is the way life goes sometimes. some things dont have closure.
If your mail says unread it maybe means that he isnt reading it and * he wants you to know that he is not reading it.*
the best thing to do in this situation is move ahead . the reason for this is that you cant make him listen to you if he doesnt want to listen to you . to me you have to look at it this way , you do have closure . your closure is that you told him you want to communicate about this , he said no . So , that's it . you move on . you did all you can and if he is refusing then , that is that .
If I were a guy ( him) I would be feeling my ego grow by the second, I would feel like i have the upper hand in the situation, I would be telling my buddies how i got you all stressed out while I was checking out other girls .
trust me you did what you could to make things more positive then they were, now it is his turn to make the effort , if he doesnt ... your relationship was not as close as you thought it was.
2007-04-18 01:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by anna w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has had it with you, and the only reason he
hasn't delete your email is because he knows if he does you will call him about it and I don't think he wants to talk to you.
2007-04-18 01:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deleted like the rest. He's over you...now you need to move on yourself. So many ppl get stuck like you have. You need to move on. Friendship with this guy isn't about to happen. You might be obsessed. Think of how your coming across to him. It might be scary. So stop...don't ask him anymore questions and no more begging for his attention. MOVE ON...
2007-04-18 01:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't say deleted but it also doesn't say read! So just remember he is in your past for a reason. Hey you tried to make amends and he is non responsive so forget him move on!
2007-04-18 01:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to make a relationship (friendship included) work. If after your attempts to "patch things up" he has remained unresponsive, then it's clear he's just not interested anymore --- his reasons are irrelevant. Time to forgive and forget...move on, sweetie....and be happy.
2007-04-18 01:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Inday 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let go and move on. If he has interest he will contact you ... and if not ... your answer is what it is. We cannot change yesterday but we can make better choices in our tomorrows ... Good luck!
2007-04-18 01:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that other gentlemen is right, we can't change yesterday but we can make better choices for our tomorrows...and by the way, from your questions, he's not much of a yesterday worth changing.
2007-04-18 01:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by myohmymyohmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on stop torching yourself it obvious that you can not be friends and yes he more than likely deleted it.
2007-04-18 01:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by carolyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, send another one.
2007-04-18 01:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋