Life is too short. You go on a date and right away you think some guy is wanting more. Maybe yes. Maybe no. Why can't you talk about it without running like a scared rabbit. I am at the point right now where I don't even want to bother asking you out anymore. You are afraid to even talk to a guy. You act high and mighty in a bar or public situation. I don't deserve it. I work hard at self improvement and have a college degree. I guess you all want some guy with $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$. Yet, you say money is not important. You know what. I don't believe it. You want money, looks, and a big winky. Don't lie.
2007-04-17 17:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been dating all the wrong women.
I'm sorry that you've met some b*tches, but really... we're not all like that.
There's someone out there for everyone. Keep looking, and don't let bad dates get you down. That way, when you finally find "the One," you'll appreciate her even more because she's not like all those other girls that care only care about "money, looks, and a [ahem] big winky."
Good luck to you.
2007-04-17 18:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by greenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow .. just wow. You know, the last two sentences say a LOT .. and possibly explain why females may not want to give you a chance.
You know, if you really want or are looking for a life partner .. it is NOT going to happen in the bars .. it is far more likely that you will meet a Decent, hard-working Female by showing interest in OTHER things -- you know .. art, history, museums, concerts, events around town -- and NOT in the Bars!
Congrats on Self-Improvement and earning your Degree .. and this is coming from someone who also has earned her own UGrad and Grad Degrees. Remember, I speak from experience here .. that the most attraction you will find is when you look for someone with the SAME interests that you have ..
2007-04-17 18:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look, just cuz some girl said no to u doesnt mean all girls will (despite popular belief we're not all the same!!! u can't generalize!!). but with an attitude like that u cant really blame her . . . . . anyway, $$$ DOESN'T matter, i'm not gonna say looks don't matter, but there are defenitely more important things like a good personality ex. a good sense of humor (my personal favorite). looks are just an added bonus. if she said no to u, then so what? you'll find a girl that likes u even for your low income, pittiful looks, and less than satisfying winky. her loss :)
2007-04-17 18:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it is the type of girl you are going after or how you are coming on. Generally I do not even bother going out with a guy that smokes because I don't like it.
2007-04-17 18:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some girls are about the money+looks+"big winky", and some arent. Me personally, i dont want to go on dates, because i have met a lot of weird people, and i dont like that awkward feeling. maybe you should try new places if you wanan hit on girls besides bars.
2007-04-17 18:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by alyssa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um dude are you serious? women dont say no because they are scared well unless you really are a scary beast or have like a criminal record. women say no because they dont want to go out with you and its as simple as that. and have you read this thing? you know how dumb this makes you look infront of other women? i mean poor people get married, ugly people find love, and men with small wieners get married so explain that? you cant expect every woman to say yes. you just have to be patient to find the right one and find one that is at your level.
2007-04-17 18:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by napkin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like that. i found a great one, keep looking.
2007-04-17 18:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by asphyxia derailed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋