me and my gf have been dating for 4 months now im her first bf and during the first week i had sex with anouther girl. how do i tell her now?
2007-04-17 17:48:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT TELL HER, and DO NOT ever do it again... redeem yourself by being faithful and loving NOW, everyone makes mistakes.. god if my wife cheated on me, id rather go on not knowing at all. because what i dont know WONT hurt me.
2007-04-17 17:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes Honesty is not the best policy. In all seriousness if there is no chance in here finding out about it and you'll NEVER do it again. Maybe it'd be better if you just didn't tell her. She'll mistrust you and maybe even dump you. It'll hurt her so bad! And obviously you are bothered by this which is a good thing. It shows that you have a conscience. But if it will never happen again and it was that ONE time i wouldn't say anything. Sorry i hope that this helps.
2007-04-18 00:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by autumn_rebellion 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are a person of tremendous integrity. Your beloved is fortunate that you desire to bless her.
Dump this garbage upon her tender heart, and you'll burn in hell for several eternities, dude.
How dare you seek to lift an ounce off your heart and cause a ton to crush her sweet and delicate soul?
You sicken me so. You make me wish I weren't a human being.
Please, suffer in silence. You deserve it so richly.
Leave her, if you wish to salvage your worthlessness. Let her find a tower of strength, virtue and nobility! There are men who will rightly cherish her, from the moment of contact.
You must, for the sake of all that is wonderful and true...get away from her. Tell her you are pure trash, maggots and all...and apologize for ever touching her with your unworthy body.
How you have destroyed my peace. Damn you. There is nothing so sublime as an innocent girl, in love, anew! There's nothing so low as a man who would betray such.
Every true man would love to own a woodchipper and have a neighbor just like you. A Korean, am I correct?
May you never have pleasure again. No, never again. If ever you write your memoirs...please...call it aright: Deep Scum.
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2007-04-18 00:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
okay most people on yahoo answers are gonna say oh break up with her you're scum she deserves so much better (which that last one is true) because to them relationships are disposable, its not their life. i think that its right that you tell her she deserves to know, but dont expect a good reaction. if my bf did that to me, i would seriously think about breaking up. If she loves you and you KNOW you will never ever do anything to hurt her again like that then tell her exactly that. i think you should write her a note telling her everything and all your feelings. tell her that you thought she deserved to know, but dont expect her to stay with her, just hope she will.
2007-04-18 00:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by yepyep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! Somethings are just better untold. I am not telling you to be dishonest but if it happened only in the first week of you dating, you relationship was not significant enough at that point for it to matter. So what can come from you telling her?...nothing but unhappiness for you both! I say there is no need to drag the skeleton out of the closet!
2007-04-18 00:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Definitely not! Not unless you have a huge diamond ring for her to forgive you with! Otherwise, don't hurt her. As long as you don't ever cheat again! Besides, I don't think it counts in the first week as long as you don't do it again. That is such a hurtful thing...be good or stay single! ; . )
2007-04-18 00:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. if it works out between yall then good. but if it doesn't work out then its still all good. cause you will probably be in many relationships in your life and so will she. each time you learn new things from your mistakes and experiences. if yall break up then yall break up. Life will go on and you will learn I hope. And hopefully eventually you will find the right person for you and so will she. Just tell her how you feel about it all and let her know. Honesty is the key to all relationships.
2007-04-18 00:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by sarah20xoxoyeps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey listen,i too had a similar problem once with my girlfriend at starting,i was not exactly cheating on her,but hide few things from her, . .Hey dear Lies never hide for too long,its better to tell her right away,if she really loves you,she will forgive you, . .at strating she will be angry but give her time,she will forgive for sure, . .and just be true, okeyh,coz if she comes to know after wards from some one else,she will defenatily dump you, so its better to tell her yourself,atleast she will have this in her mind that you are being true to her :)
good luck
2007-04-18 00:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Swadesh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey girlfriend I cheated on you when we first started seeing each other.
How is that?
By the way you may want to cover your face cause she will hit you or try anyway lol
2007-04-18 00:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by James D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if its making you feel really bad and you want to get it off your chest sure tell her but you have the problem of screwing up your relationship up with her... and having the chance of her dumping you other wise i think if i was you i wouln't tell her it was ages ago and you will only make things worse but unless she askes you ' have you ever cheated on me' then its probly best not to say anything..
2007-04-18 00:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋