I had the BIGGEST urge yesterday to just talk to my ex-boyfriend on msn, but I didn’t do anything about it. I was on msn & he was online too. We dated for a short while then HE ended it, and it has been over for one year. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He says says hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". The last time he said hi to me on msn was a month ago so lately I just wanted to talk to him & see how he was, but I have too much pride cuz he dumped me I don’t wanna seem desperate.
2007-04-17 17:08:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was his b-day a few weeks ago I didn’t say anything, just so we could both move on. I was so shocked when HE said hi to me on msn last nite, cuz I thought he would be sad/mad since I never said happy b-day to him. On msn last nite, he asked me casual questions & he wanted to know what I was gonna do after I graduate university. He had told me before that after he graduated he wanted to move in with his best friend. Last night, he said he won’t move in with his friend, but just stay home. Then I made a joke & said, “didn’t u know a bachelor pad is great, I mean how are u gonna get laid living with ur parents?” then I said “Just kidding, its just a joke”. I waited for his reply , he didn’t say anything so I said “I guess ur mad” then he said “haha, just a tad”, & put a winking smiley face. Is he mad, I mean he’s knows I’m joking rite? & what the hell
did he mean by “just a tad”???
2007-04-17 17:09:50 · update #1
Quit asking the same stuff over and over , hottie - HE DOESNT LIKE U - GET OVER IT !
2007-04-17 17:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to be friends with him? I would not expect anything more than friends right now. Things seem a little awkward with him. BUT! If you care about him enough to be friends. Then let him know that you think that you hurt his feelings and you didn't mean to. Personally I would ask over the phone or in person. Don't do too much talking on the internet. Things can be misunderstood a lot easier on the net because you are not face to face, and can't see or hear how someone is genuinly responding to your joke or inuendo. It has been a year since you dated. Put pride and worries about being desparate aside, and just be real and honest.
2007-04-18 00:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Glenda A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe me he isn't hurt at all that you didn't tell him happy birthday. Believe me guys don't care at all about that kind of thing. You guys have been broken up for over a YEAR?!?
No normal person would be on here after have been broken up for over a year and still asking questions about their X who broke up with them.
Please he was just making conversation with you, THAT IS IT. He doesn't want you to be his girlfriend again, he was just making conversation that is it. Please get some help, it is over and you need to face it and move on.
2007-04-18 01:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he wants you to feel bad about what you said and that you kind of asked a question about him having sex even though you didnt ask. Do not be old faithful remember he broke up with you for a reason.
2007-04-18 00:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by carolyn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's still into u..just won't admit it..for some odd reason. seems like he wants to keep u around to see you and be w you when HE wants...i think what u are doing makes sense. u dont want to seem desperate. and dont give in. make him beg for u back. and and and...hes just messing w ur mind...DONT let this happen. his comment "just a tad" is making u think...which is what he wants. just be careful..dont let him play games. just bc ur younger doenst mean u are someone he can keep around and take advantage of... be careful...and NO u dint hurt him. i think he hurt YOU.
2007-04-18 00:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may have been feeling guilty because when he split with you he was having sex with someone else. He probably thinks that you know about it, and you said that to piss him off.
Don't worry about it. If he wants to be your friend, he will have to learn to be treated like a friend, not a boyfriend. You did nothing wrong.
2007-04-18 00:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is not mad!!!!! You are honestly thinking that he is thinking of you all the time when he prob isn't!! He prob just wants to stay in touch so when you do decided to start having sex he will be a first option???Some GUYS ARE LIKE THIS!!!!!
2007-04-18 00:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he still has some feelings for u. and he wants u to like him 2. the just a tad part he was just thinking about ur relationship with him. its soo obvious. not to be rude. but hell do u still like him or r u a its over *** like most ppl?
2007-04-18 00:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by w/ejustcareaboutmyanswer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he is mad and if he is then thats something really stupid to get mad about, since you said you were jokeing. He was probly just cought off guard by it. If you talk to him again tell hi you are sorry if it affended him and it was not your intention to do so. Good luck.
2007-04-18 00:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i doubt it guys dont look too much into things like that...i think its ok...and you made a good point how is he gonna get laid living with his parents??
2007-04-18 00:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by brit 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋