Why guys lose so much popularity when he goes to college?

Question

Back in my high school, I was pretty popular among girls. I had numerous friends, and I easily became presidents of many clubs and stuff.

When I didn't have a car, one cute girl offered me to provide ride to school everyday, and she gave me her number even if I didn't ask. and I refused... and now she is a cheerleader in college (we go to different schools)

So, I'll say, even though I am not hot or anything, I did attract several girls, and I did get along with them very well.

But, now I am in college, I feel like I am a total loser. As a pre-med, I study my *** off without going to parties, and no girls in my class consider me as a potential guy to go out.

What has happened to me? I am way more athletic than my high school years and dress way better with more maturity.

Answer 1

You made friends based on your sexual attractivness. Because of that all those wonderful ladies don't have anything to do with you anymore. Shoot I've got girlfriends from highschool to, I still talk to them, they made colleage much easier on me espacially the first few weeks till I actual met people. I can only figure thats your problem because on those that don't understand how to make real human relationships actually have problems in colleage. You can actual pick them out, looking all stylish, yet can't say a darn thing to a person, lol. Ether way start talking to people, start relating, colleage is the place were you have to survive on your charater.... also might want to go to the parties, be back in the same situation you were use to in highschool! Short of that your going to have to reach out....