he also told to be tired of him for him,and that i"m no good for him .we where best friends for 4 yrs. before our relationship began he drink .he also told that he had wheh to see an old crush of his .i walk out. should i call him to see if he even remember any of the thing he said.because deep in my heart i believe his does even recalled what happen and don't even know why i left.need answer asap.i loved this person
he also said that he wanted me to be tired of him for him and that i was no good for him .we have been besst friends for 6yrs. before this ship .which we have became imitately 4 a year. i do not drink now. but he has continue to drink. i walk out the choas .should i call him. i reall do love him .
2007-04-17 16:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by georgia j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing about whenever someone has too much to drink the real and true feelings comes out. U do need to talk with ur boyfriend about what was said. I know u still love him but the thing about what was said was that he said something that he has been wanting to tell u but could while sober, but after a few drinks in him the truth came out (and I'm sorry about that)
He also needs to get help about his drinking. I guess the upside is now u know his real feelings and that u need to talk to him and then maybe move on
Good Luck
I'm sure u hurting but u can and will get past this. This is a big world we live in and out in this big world there are other guys , meet someone who doesn't have a drinking problem and who loves u back
2007-04-17 16:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that your relationship turned out this way for you.
I think you should count your blessings, & be glad that you found out that he's a cheating drunk before you invested any more time with him.
Good Luck!
2007-04-17 23:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey, I'm sorry I hurt you, but I have CRS (can't remember s h i t) when I drink and maybe I just drink to forget what a great speller you are!
2007-04-17 23:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he told you he was cheating on you???? Get out especially if he has a drinking problem. Trust me, let this guy get his life straight b/f you decide to be with him. Good luck I know it's hard.
2007-04-17 23:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then leave him....you don't deserve that. No woman or man does. Relationships are about dedication to one another and taking care of one another. Not about lies and deception.
2007-04-17 23:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_me19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he or didnt he will he or wont he all I ask is why!Why put yourself through crap! Toss trash to the garbage and get real!
2007-04-17 23:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Injun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that to yourself??? the guy was seeing someone behind your back and he drinks alot. YOUcan do better.
2007-04-17 23:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunken words are sober thoughts
2007-04-17 23:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by javelin_grrl18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. he drinks and is seeing sum1 behind your back. dump him
2007-04-17 23:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by makgirl111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have asked this several times. go away.
2007-04-17 23:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋