I can't seem to do anything right, I can't hold a job, I can't get a new job. I have tons of skills, none that seem usefull though. I just seem to think that theres nothing worth this much trouble in life.
2007-04-17 14:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you might consider going back to school and try not be so hard on yourself we are always our toughest critics just keep trying something i am sure will come up but try and relax there's money for school and look into a social service agency in your area you might be surprised at the out come and since you do so many skills try americorps. org they have plenty of programs and some even have housing or you may try peace corps they give you a stipend and housing and set you back up once you hit the states again take it easy please and pray also your will may not be GODS will and that may be the issue that's if you believe if not try any way peace
2007-04-17 15:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need to do is take some time to stop dragging yourself down with "poor me" statements. Go at this with an attitude of strength and positive thoughts.
First, be honest with yourself, why did you loose those jobs? Then, set out to change that behavior in your that contributed to the firings.
Second, go to a career counseling center to see how you can best use those skill you have and ask for advice about the problems you had in the past with jobs. They may be able to shed some more light on the situation to further assist you in changing old habits or attitudes that lead to a negative outcome.
Third, build your self-esteem. Stop saying that you "can't do anything right", that just isn't true. Sit down and take some time to list your positive traits, skills and contributions. You will see you CAN do a lot right. Good luck!
2007-04-17 14:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AM I looking in a mirror? Just kidding... we all feel this way and no it is not insane to say you hate life an everybody in it.. the bible says if you are saved you are not of this world..Everyone is different, differnt opinions, just everything...you can never please two people at the same time..i have found through the word of God, that we are of one mind...buuuut trust me we all get there at different times...LIfe felt "unsettled for me for a long time" it still does sometimes... but, through God I am gaining a reason to go on..and I am getting better at washing off things that people say...Bless lyour heart...if you get some quiet time, read the bible..the new testament...psalms all of it is good though..
2007-04-17 14:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're actually not insane. in case you have been raped, then he's deeper than scum for attempting to justify it. anybody prepared to back up one in all those guy isn't properly worth it sluggish, no longer by using a protracted shot. in any case, that's obtrusive why those human beings despise you; they have been close pals with the rapist, and their short-sighted friendship has created loyalty to this guy, making you an enemy. I have not any theory while you're insane and making it up. i might wish you realize how rape happens, thinking it got here approximately to you, so do no longer doubt your self consistent with merciless words from bugs. I recommend you pass away this antagonistic ecosystem (i assume your job or college) and initiate anew someplace else. i does not want to be around such heavy chains. you may desire to discover solutions and power from interior your self or close ones, no longer from random cyber web strangers. good good fortune.
2016-12-29 05:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats something insane to say. to be honest i can think of less than a handful of people i actually enjoy, and quite frankly i don't enjoy life in general much at all. perhaps it's time to move to a city where there are more job opportunities for you? you claim you have many skills, i should think there's SOMEONE that can use them..my laundromat that i go to is hiring, you could work there. just make sure you can fold laundry well, eh?
2007-04-17 14:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by polymyxinbsulfates 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it would be insane. I feel you are just disgusted because of the job situation. Keep giving your best and you will find something you like. don't ever give up and keep your chin up. Things will get better. Good luck.
2007-04-17 14:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you only fail when u give up.
thomas edison failed at many many many many many inventions before inventing something worthwhile.
it's easy to give up and feel sorry for ones self.
thats why so many people do it.
2007-04-17 14:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋