Well, it just seems like life hates me. When i was younger (like back in middle school) I was pretty tall compared to everyone else, turns out i stopped growin since then. (currently 5 foot 3 inches). Ever since my freshman year in highschool, i haven't had a girlfriend or even think someone had a crush on me (i'm a senior by the way). I'm pretty dark too. Like i'm black, but kinda dark. Is there a good chance that I could have another girlfriend. she obviously might not find me attractive since i'm short. but is there a chance for me?
2007-04-17 14:22:29 · 21 answers · asked by OneAndOnly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just need to be yourself confident and believe in yourself!!! That would be your attractive selling point.. Best of luck!!
2007-04-17 14:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't lost your ability to get with girls. Some girls like dark guys. I personally think some are cute. If you're short, just make up for it by having a great personality and being funny. Funny-- that almost always works. Girls love to laugh, I know I do. It doesn't matter that you're short. There are LOTS of girls out there who are WAY shorter than you. But after getting to know you, they'll look up to you. Like seriously.
2007-04-17 14:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lostinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, this is so sad. Ofcourse there's a chance for you, DUH! I mean you're only still in high school! Stop it with that negative attitude --right now. There is someone for EVERYONE! Personally, I like shorter guys, many women know they are better dancers and better lovers too. Not so big and awkward, like tall guys. Anyway, pull yourself up by your boot straps (as we say in Texas) and stop obsessing about your height. Start focusing on all the good things about you. Give thanks to God for someting in your life everyday. No girl is attracted to a negative attitude, ok? Good luck my young friend!
2007-04-17 14:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have lost your mojo...no,. no chance for redemption unless you grow a spine and some balls. Just because your short doesnt mean you cant get girls...you arent going to be hookin any tall chicks but who cares...most women like confidence in a man...and money doesnt hurt..and if your well hung, that helps alot,....women really dont care how short you are as long as you have the bling and the schwing! ya know wha im sayin homie!
2007-04-17 14:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of feel like that too
It isn't life that hates me, just women.
I guess I'm too fat.
Gonna give up and get drunk for a few decades I think.
I could just wear overalls and grow a very long beard.
And drink beer all day every day. Till I'm dead.
It seems more and more like a viable option lately.
2007-04-17 14:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think negative. The right one will come along. Just give it time. Once you stop looking and just accept life for what it is, the right one will come along. The more you try, it will make you paranoid. I myself am famous for my negative thinking and being paranoid in the past and that is exactly what happened. Once I stopped thinking that way things worked out for the best.
2007-04-17 14:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude don't worry. just cuz you are short doesn't mean anything. i like short guys. but they can't be shorter than me cuz thats just wierd. and life doesn't hate you. you are just having a bad time right now. go find a girl who is a lil bit shorter than you. and flirt with her, talk to her at school and on the phone, and pretty soon things should start to connect. k!
2007-04-17 14:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 3 in middle school is tall?
2007-04-17 14:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r a christian, and a virgin, u should seek God's face for one. Try and not talk about lust unto him, and ask him to show u what lust is. God will show u the flesh, and he will not tell u not to desire it. But keep at God and ask for another way for he is the creator of sex, and he is holy. Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and all his righteousness. It requires lots of faith and Patience, but the rewards r huge. Now the question to ask me is how the heck did i get to singles and dating??????????one minute I'm a the religion section, and then I'm here....hmmm funny..
2007-04-17 16:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah! High school relationships aren't usually for the right reason anyway. Your best life is not just now, but for many years to come. Don't worry, the right girl will come when you least expect it!
2007-04-17 14:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to confidence and you don't have any. There are a lot of short, dark guys with girls.. look around. It's you! Hold your head up. be proud of who you are.
2007-04-17 14:26:11 · answer #11 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋