Sorry for the lame question, but me & my boyfriend really like eachother and we're 13. Yeah, and he's made out before and I haven't so I don't know how. I've kissed people before yeah, but I don't know how to make out. :/ Oh and don't say If you have to ask your not old enough or whatever. I just don't know how! Help!
2007-04-17 11:39:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really do want to make out though! Im just embarrassed that I might screw up and since he has done it before it is awkward. I told him that I've never done it before and he said he would teach me but wouldn't that just be awkward?? I just want to know the basics! We've been going out for 5 months already. Trust me that's a long time for middle school! :]
2007-04-17 11:47:08 · update #1
I thought making out was using tounge. OH AND I'M DEFINITELY not going to do it! Jeez! :]
2007-04-17 11:49:16 · update #2
Ok, don't worry, here is a way to make out. When you but your tongue in his mouth trying writing your name in cursive with your tongue. lol it seems to work for me. As for where to put your arms, it depends... if your standing put your arms around his waist or neck, sitting lean over and put them on something, lying down put your arms over his body.... hope i am a help. good luck.
2007-04-17 11:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a planned action and you will just have to communicate with each other during the experience to better enjoy the moment as your level of experience is diffrent.
I do not know you or your values, so will not tell you what to do nor what not to do bassed on your age. The only sane advice I beleive that i can give is, "if ya going to do it, then do be safe".
2007-04-17 11:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to rest my arms on my guy's shoulders. That's what feels comfortable. Another move is to kinda put your hands around his waist (not hips, that's a common mistake) and pull him closer, if you want the makeout to get super-steamy! And try not to go tongue until you have some experience.
2007-04-17 11:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in slow for one quick one, then pull back a little and look in his eyes...if he looks like he liked it, go in for more. You can open your mouth a little at first, but wait a while if you're gonna use your tongue. Go slow and just enjoy it. As far as your arms...they can go behind his head, around his waist, or on his shoulders. Just go with the flow and you'll do fine...Good luck!
2007-04-17 11:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by 17*mezzo*17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you're 13. No need to get worried about that junk at the mo'. Focus on building a meaningful relationship with your boyfriend, and if he forces you to do anything you're uncomfortable with ditch him quick!
2007-04-17 11:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by marianne_dashwood 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can put ur hands anywhere that is confortabl..wen I use to I put my hands in his bak pocket..or u can just like "hug" like the person...and I've ben their done that..(but I didn't have to ask) I just went with the flow..u do the same...
2007-04-17 11:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by FASHION 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me..my first time it was dare or double dare lol but i had no idea how just go in and you figure it out..but close your eyes! that was my mistake and i have closed them ever since haha
2007-04-17 11:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by shuddup&&kissme. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at 13 u shouldnt worry about making out u should be acting like a 13 year old
2007-04-17 11:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by dlcbabygirl 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Have him teach you that is how most people learn
2007-04-17 11:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your arms go were ur hormones lead them lol. they go werever they just end up! making out is really just alot of kissing. repeatedly atleast. you dont think about it all the time, it just happens. so relax and enjoy! good luck with wat evs ur situation is!
2007-04-17 11:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by rockin awesome person ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋