my guy friend always asks me to do "it" with him and i dont want to because i think im too young but he keeps begging me and begging me then if i say no he makes fun of me..what can i do to not be made fun of for a smart decision? please help? anyone??
2007-04-17 11:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by shuddup&&kissme. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we arent even dating..but i like him! lol this is his only turn off
2007-04-17 11:34:19 · update #1
Tell him to get lost. Begging to get laid is not how "friends" treat each other. Make new friends. He's a loser.
2007-04-17 11:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it so much. You said yourself its a smart decision and those who know the truth will respect you more. He is just jealous of your self worth.. i say well done for sticking to your guns.
Next time he makes fun of you drop the hint that if he doesn't stop you will sue him for sexual harrassement... (which is in fact what it is)
2007-04-17 11:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the guy and you are both ready, then why not? Waiting until marriage is pretty stupid anymore. How does a piece of paper (marriage certificate) make a difference? Just go ahead and give it up. You are going to sooner or later anyway.
2007-04-17 11:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by brodysimpson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better for him to make fun of you (and show his true colors) than you to regret your decision and live with the guilt and hating yourself for your decision....
2007-04-17 11:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by onebadblonde45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious stuff if you feel you are too young you answered your own question you are enjoy your young life before you get into the sex stuff you won.t regret it
2007-04-17 11:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to than don't do it and if he doesn't understand tell him to get lost. That is the smart decision
2007-04-17 11:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you otherwise enjoy the relationship learn how to do him orally and manually (and he to you) but refrain from intercourse.
(In my country learning how to masturbate was actually taught in my sex ed course as a way of safely handling passion).
2007-04-17 11:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! of course not!
you need to wait till marriage
2007-04-17 11:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you are saving yourself for marriage. If he cant wait then tell him to get to steppin. If he loves you he will wait until you are ready.
2007-04-17 11:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump that loser! a guy should never pressure you and he should respect your choice, not make fun of you!
2007-04-17 11:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋