O.k. my story, I always misinterpret things when it comes to guys. I'm already in college. Never dated. Guys whom I like make me incredibly nervous when they ask me out. I completely freak out and say something stupid or I begin to stutter. So it never happens. I can't even talk to them on the phone. I become blank. I forget that I have a brain and a personality. lol Whenever a guy that I like looks at me, I start to think there is something repulsive and strange about me.
Yes, I've been to a counselor.
2007-04-17 11:24:10 · 4 answers · asked by mmmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats the question? and if i ran in to a girl like you, id be relieved i had met a girl more nervous than i was. and im really not that nervous but its nice to see girls that don't act like they are better than all the guys out there. a good guy will make you feel comfortable after a few minutes, its fine. and just have a good attitude. like me, im caring less and less about what other girls think of me so i can go right up to one and tell her she looks like a pink elephant and no matter the response ill keep on living my life the same way. and yes ive acted like a jerk to girls ive liked and girls ive liked acted like jerks to me even though they liked me too. idk what youre asking but i hope that helps. good luck, and calm down. life should be less like driving on the jersey turnpike and more like driving down a country road with your favorite music on.
2007-04-17 11:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sam16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's something with the way you feel about yourself, just try and accept the way you are and how you present yourself to others.
If you don't think that's it, maybe you're just very shy around those that you like, I'm pretty much the same way only I shake, feel like I'm doused in sweat even though I haven't sweat a drop, my voice cracks, and I avoid eye contact. So, you don't have the worst of it ^_-*
I've been trying something that's seemed to more or less work lately, I try to make THEM nervous and completely forget about myself. It works so far, so maybe it'll help with you.
2007-04-17 18:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you know it's nothing but the freakies. Weird little thoughts you conjure up in your head so you don't have to go out. You're just plain scared. Only you can get rid of these thoughts and make it happen!!
2007-04-17 18:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i am the same way, you just gotta be more confident!
Good Luck!
2007-04-17 18:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋