I have had a girl friend for over 7 months now, I love her a lot and I never want to lose her, but today over MSN I kind of gave this other girl hints that I like her, by saying stuff that ended up in me and her in my bed, but I don't want to like her, seeing as I love my girl friend. Now I think she loves me and I don't want to get in a mess with everyone and lose my girl frieend, what should I do?
2007-04-17 11:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd tell the girl who you were talking with today that you were just kidding.
Which by the way you are a moron for saying anything like that in the first place. Hopefully you have learned a lesson because if you really love the girl that you have been with for 7 months you wouldn't be doing stuff like this.
Good Luck!
2007-04-17 11:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Super Babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want to lose your gf, then i suggest you lock up your penis and throw the key away!
Seriously though, you have done a very bad thing, you have brought distrust into your relationship that will never go away.
In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater!.
Do your poor gf a favour, break up with her and let her find someone that will love and "respect her and the union of their relationship, because you don't and she deserves the best!
Hard words but very true!
PS, here is something to educate you about what love is....
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is kind and patient
never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude.
Love isn't selfish or quick tempered, or "deceiving"
It doesn't keep a record of wrongs that others do.
Love rejoices in the TRUTH,
but not in evil.
Love is always supportive, LOYAL, hopeful and the big one TRUSTING!
Are you these things to your gf?, i beg to differ.
2007-04-17 18:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Purity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot. Pure and simple. You have a girl who loves you, and you have stuffed it up by thinking with your dick instead of your heart. I am sorry but I have not sympathy for you. Your lovely girlfriend does not deserve this and you deserve to lose her. I hope she finds out and leaves you.
If you want a relationship to work, you need to learn to grow up and get your **** off the computer. If you love this girl what are you doing sitting on msn chatting up other women
anyway? That is just stupid. Real men dont sit around chatting on msn. Get over it.
I think you have already made a mess of 3 lives. Next time try harder and keep out of chat rooms, dating sites, msn, my space etc etc. God men like you make me mad!!!!!\
I hope your girlfriend gets over this without too much hurt and finds a man who will aprreciate and treat her with the love and respect she deserves. Sorry to be a ***** but you just need to be told how it is. Good luck.
2007-04-17 18:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sweetie. So It simpl seems like you're not ready to be in a relationship. If you say you love your gf, than why sleep with the other person? You have to rethink your situation. Do you really love your gf or are you scared of losing simply because you've gotten so use to her?
If you choose to stay with your gf. Be honest. If you're looking to just run around and have fun, than dont have a gf.
Good luck!
2007-04-17 18:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Beans15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, ur kinda screwed. if u really loved ur g/f, (not pointing fingers), u wouldn't have done that. I mean, you may think it's love with your g/f, but it could still be that "infatutation" stage and you're getting bored. You're going to be in a mess anyway you look at it. 1) You tell your girlfriend, be honest, she breaks up with you or forgives you. You earn somewhat of a bit of respect for owning up to it and you can talk it out and think things thru and your g/f may forgive you or.. 2) You don't say anything, someone ends up finding out. You look like an idiot and everyone hates you and everyone finds out anyway. You lose respect.
2007-04-17 18:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by tiger14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow,
I kinda know how you feel. You can like someone. But first thing you need to do is tell your girlfriend what happened and then (good luck) tell the other girl that you like her but say that you have a girfriend and your going through something right now.
Hope everything goes well.
2007-04-17 18:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Imagegirl101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a very strong feeling and i have been in love for years. let me say this, you really cant be in love if u like someone else. u may have really strong feelings for your gf, but u also just said some really bad things to the other girl ending up in ur bed? wow. i advise u highly to tell your gf what happend. its best for her to find out from you rather than the other person. just be honest and tell her how u feel ..... say what you feel... good luck!
2007-04-17 18:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Got a news flash for you, your already in a mess. Got to keep those britches on when you have a girlfriend that you love, same for when you get married. The consequences are you will loose them.
2007-04-17 18:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to tell yo girl what happened then u need to tell the otha girl u in love wit yo girlfriend and u dont want to mess that up and lose her
2007-04-17 18:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by mzdbwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off the temptation. Online flurting can get to be an addiction. in order to keep your girlfriend, dont take chances like that. steer clear of thoes hot babes, after all, you already have one!
2007-04-17 18:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋