Women tend not to appreciate guys asking them if it's ok if they fantasise about other women during sex nor do we like being called thunder thighs (not even as a 'joke'). Fussy I know but that's women for you. Remember these basic rules next time you meet someone you like & you should be ok.
2007-04-17 10:58:27 · 18 answers · asked by zoomraker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i learnt that at school
2007-04-17 11:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming the text under your posted question was the comment made by the girl in question.
It honestly sounds like you spoke something without thinking about how others would react to it; A common human mistake, one which only can be corrected with experience, time, awareness, forethought, and practice.
Your response to this will be critical to the reconciliation process. You should admit fault, apologize, and acknowledge to this person the fact that they may not want to talk to you for a bit, and that you understand.
And then WAIT. Don't nag. Don't fuss. Don't stalk. The person must choose, over this space of time, if your comments alone are worth banishing you from their presence, espcially given the fact that you've admited your flaws and have aplogized and handled the situation maturely.
Then THAT person must initate contact; Not YOU. Leave it in their hands.
And it would behoove you to consider this a lesson in semantics; What you mean to say and what you actually say aren't always going to match up, and people won't always interpret your words in the same way you would. What you mean as a light jibe may be interpreted as a personal bias; What you think is an acceptable question may be taken as a faux paus.
Always look to the root causes of any conflict or misunderstanding to help solve this in the future, and to help predict what may or may not be the right thing to say.
2007-04-17 11:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, but you better start kissing her you know what. Apologize over and over and be sincere about it, send her flowers or bring her a little stuffed animal or candy (chocolate). Write her a poem or a song and text her nice things and tell her how stupid you were being. You may be able to win her back, you may have blown it.
Good luck and I hope you learned your lesson as to what to NOT say next time. (kinda common sense don't ya think?)
2007-04-17 11:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by REBECKA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oops! You went and done biggies didn't you? All over your nice new carpet, you did a big poo huh? Naughty boy! You should be ashamed! No chance of reconciliation I'm afraid. You blew it, didn't you, ya pie! Ach well, you live and learn. x
2007-04-17 11:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by MARYJANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insane if you said that to your girlfriend and didn't expect to be shot down in flames. At least she was nice about it. But I don't think yuo can get her back unless you claim temporary insanity.
2007-04-17 11:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have sid that but since you did call her meet her alone beg her and if she does not agree then send her a bunch of flowers and a romantic poem weekly
2007-04-21 10:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ademola E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. She is too verbose. Just 4 fun, u cud offer her a gym membership.
2007-04-17 11:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. You blew it--bigtime. Hope you learned something from this.
2007-04-17 11:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what she is tryin to say in a nice way is ITS OVER.....try not to act like a jerk next time
2007-04-17 11:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by ɱýšƗȉɋǔȇ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dear lord did you say them to her..
she's giving you advice so you dont screw up your next relationship...
2007-04-17 11:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by josephine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm
mixed feelings on this one
is "marshmallow thighs "ok?
2007-04-17 11:03:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋