am 22 and he 27years, i have being with this guy for 3 years, just recently we had a problem and decieded to break up. i was very hurt. then later within 3 weeks he came back and apologise and i accepted because i love him. not knowing he was planning to get married to another person. i asked him, he said he was so angry about our misunderstanding that he prosposed to this person, but he dont love her. that i am the one he wants, he keeps on calling me day and night but i dont respond. i feel being cheated.he is planning to marry an other girl but still love me. i dont understand what he really wants from me. i am very hurt but still love him. what shold i do?
2007-04-17 08:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to do the obvious thing and call of the wedding with this other girl. I don't understand why anger would make you propose to someone you don't love. He seems unstable and not sure what he really wants if he is still planning on marrying her even though he loves you. I don't know if I would take him back after that.
2007-04-17 08:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Katie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go if was going to propose to someone else after only being seperated from you a few weeks. If he meant what he said about being hurt about the misunderstanding and really does love you he should have come to his senses and proposed and apopologized to you at the same time not use another girl as a scapegoat. My guess is he and her had a fight so hes running back to you cause he knows how you feel about him and can manipulate you.
2007-04-17 15:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a cad. If he loves you, you should be the one he is marrying. If he is marrying someone else and wants to keep you on the side, he is just leading you on.
I am sorry you are hurt, but you will be more hurt if you agree to any sort of a relationship with a man who is marrying some else. It should be clear to you what he want. He wants to have her and you.
You need to have enough respect for yourself to insist that if you are the one he loves, you should be the one he marries. If he doesn't do that, then break it off with him totally and go look for another love.
2007-04-17 15:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Leal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's start with a plan, forget the love stuff and get an education which may invariably open up your world to understanding what common sense and logic are really all about.
No one loves anyone who breaks up and proposes to another person within a 3 week period.
Ridiculous...Are you smokin somethin here?!
Grace
2007-04-17 15:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of man proposes after 3 weeks to a girl her doesnt love, and to get even? He must have known her or had a relationship before you broke up.
I know you are hurting, and it is very hard to stop a relationship. But he's now hurt you twice. the break up then the proposal.. let him go, let your heart heal and move on..
{{HUGS}}
2007-04-17 15:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by say_tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him.
He ain't right in his head. If he was serious about what he's telling you, he would break the engagement ant THEN approach you with appology. If what he's telling is the truth.
But it ain't so don't worry about him breaking up with his fiancee.
He just wants some bootie.
She won't give hime any most likely.
2007-04-17 15:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mess with it. Your too young to be worrying about that. But you were only broken up for 3 weeks and he is already engaged?? Sounds kind of weird to me. He was probably seeing that other girl behind your back.
2007-04-17 15:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who needs all that crap. get him out and get someone that will argue or fight and then come back without another fiance and just a rose and a hug
2007-04-17 15:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Frankee06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave him change ur # let him go he's nothing but trouble
2007-04-17 15:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋