2007-04-17 08:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by mamaroach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so how do i know the difference btw that he's not interested OR he's insecure and wants me to lead on??
I'm sure there must be a difference?
It's not 1950s but whatever happens to the 'thrill of the chase' thingy??
2007-04-17 08:34:41 · update #1
Fear of rejection I would imagine, in case he thinks she's leading him on? Maybe he isn't interested. Oh and some men don't do subtle, so maybe she needs to take the lead.
2007-04-17 08:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just might not be interested. He may just be friendly. Why not ask him out? It may ruin a friendship but life's too short!! Go on. Take the plunge
2007-04-17 15:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm completly blind to come on's i think it's having a strong familly tie. Tell him you like him this will boost his ego men won't chase something or in this case someone if they don't think it can be caught which is usually cause for feeling stupid.
2007-04-21 07:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by reefboi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The signs are often in a language that men just don't understand.
I've often been completely oblivious to someone flirting with me (it usually takes another girl pointing it out to me.)
2007-04-17 15:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Vegan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may not want to. He may want to but not right now. He may not "read" your "signs". Why not ask him, this isn't 1950 any more? Good luck.
2007-04-17 15:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by mafille.mavie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have the eyes that can see your beauty.Such a person may be in love with someone else.Try to ignore him for a month . iF he doesn't feel gealous , forget all about him
2007-04-17 15:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by ELBASHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he MIGHT not like her like that but if he gives those signs right back then its prolly cause hes in fear of rejection or expecting you to actually aproach him...dont fear talking to him...thats what people are scared of since they dont know how that person will react...unless hes a complete A-hole he will smile and say hi back and u can carry a conversation.
2007-04-17 15:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
oooh...I so feel you right now.
we're in the same boat.
though I haven't exactly been showing signs that I like him. But, I know how you feel.
2007-04-17 17:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Fatin K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clear signals you are sending might not be clear to him.
Or he might not be interested in you that way.
I suggest you talk to him about it.
2007-04-17 15:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uncertainty, coupled with fear of rejection. You know she likes you, but does she like you the way you like her?
2007-04-17 15:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by mr_sinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋