I broke up with my boyfriend because I didnt feel attracted to him?

Question

Hes now being a complete *** hole because he still likes me . we were friends before and rushed into something that was never there but he still likes me a lot and is making it hard for our droup for friends to hang out since hes being weird . what do i do ? keep talkin to him with his new jerky qualities?? ignore him and ruin the groups friendship

Answer 1

Sounds like he is the one ruining the groups friendship. Also sounds like you guys really weren't good friends. For one you lied to him about how attrated you were in the frist place ether that or what attrated you wasn't there, you just thought it was, which means you lied to yourself, which in-turn shows your really not a good friend with yourself. Which would of made it impossiable for you to be a good friend to him. Which is what turn'd this relationship into what it is. Your not completely to blame chances are the friendship wasn't deep enough before you got into a relationship and he didn't know how to handle it any better then you. The unfornate side-effect is that you can't just stop love just because theres no relationship, so he's got to let it burn, of course you could of choose a more mature "friend" and it wouldn't be this way... live and learn... talk with your group, be honest with them, and maybe you all can confront the jerk and let him know his behavior well not be tolerate. Ether grow up or shut up, in other words, good luck