i totally adore my new boyfriend i love him with all my heart what can i do to tell him how i really feel without making him feel insecure or uncomfortable. imean, c'mon i really don't wanna scare him off or put him inteh hotset/ please what can i do? HELP!
2007-04-17 07:47:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, the best thing you can do is to not say anything but continue to be you and be caring and understanding. Actions speak louder than words. Sometimes words can seem corny or seem like you're trying to hard.
I'm sure he knows that you care a lot.
2007-04-17 07:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by geminig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell him now? Take it from someone who's been around the block a couple of times, restrain yourself. It's a new relationship, so just enjoy it. Time will tell if he is the man for you. For the time being, keep your true feelings to yourself. Who knows, you may not feel the same way next month. Just have fun. There's nothing a man hates worse than a woman who wants a commitment after 2 dates.
2007-04-17 08:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Stone Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how long you been with him. If you are with him less then a month then you should just tell him you like spending time with him. If you are seeing him more then 6 months then you can tell him the past 6 months been great and you really care about him You made a best friend also besides a boyfriend. No L word.
2007-04-17 07:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how long have you actually known him? love can certainly be mistaken for infatuation. You can really care about someone. Pretty much anytime you say it and he's not ready to say it back it will be a little uncomfortable. If you really feel the need to express your feelings then do so. Certainly I'm not saying to hold them back.
2007-04-17 07:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by faerygirlnatl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to scare him off, just be really sweet to him and keep the 'L' word to yourself until the time is right. It's too soon!
2007-04-17 07:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Bigglesworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning, you should only let a little bit of that out and see if you get the same response.
2007-04-17 07:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no how u feel, your heart says you luv him but your head says "no way". You will probably catch him off guard - I would strongly recomend u wait until you are really sure
2007-04-17 07:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep the L word away for now. It is too soon. Just be their for him in a way he will be able to know that you care.
2007-04-17 07:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by alie c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him that being with him has given you a new positive attitude about life, one which you hope to always share with him. He'll smile. That's enough.
2007-04-17 07:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him this to soon you might scare him off just be with him and let everything work itself out.
2007-04-17 07:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋