I'm a good looking responsible woman, and it's so hard for me to find a decent man in San Diego. It seems like they're either out to have sex, or they're loosers. I'm looking for someone with good conversation, a job, and a desire to be in a relationship. Is this too much to ask?
2007-04-17 07:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop "looking" Relax, go out, have fun with the girls etc.. When you least expect it, they come around.. The more you look for em... the least its likely to find one.. When I was looking.. I was single and miserable.... when I stopped looking and focusing more on myself.. all of a sudden, I was swarmed with men...
2007-04-17 07:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's all this way You need to find a man who is not concerned with looks, and who probably has kids of his own. In general, men don't want another man's children, nor the drama that comes from the other man you were once with, having those children. Men are possessive, and want their own offspring, once they decide to have them, but there are some that don't care. Also, a woman who is in shape attracts men of worth, that esteem themselves higher (which sounds like what you want). It's about genetics when it comes down to it, and it isn't wrong either. You really should be with the man who you had those children with if you can; otherwise, you need to look elsewhere for a man that wants all of the above. It may be hard to find. Personally, I don't want a woman with another man's children. I want my own children one day, who are my blood, and have no love for another man somewhere, that they think of as their real dad. Everywhere is the same. As far as your pick on men, it sounds like you are going after bad boy men to begin with. This is a stigma. You can't help it, but you have children now, so your concern should be for them, not finding another man.
2016-05-17 09:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. & not just in San Diego, good men are hard to find all over the world hun. Like what Oprah says, the smarter the woman gets, the more difficult for her to find the right man. don't worry, you'll meet him at the right time
2007-04-17 07:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because most men in San Diego or bisexual or Homosexuals.. SAN DIEGO IS LISTED AS ONE OF TOP !5 PLACES TO CATCH AIDS AND HIV...
2007-04-17 07:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psshh, Try looking for a women who meets those Requirements in Orange County.
2007-04-17 07:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by grem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not to much to ask, u might b able to find a guy at ur job or at someone elses keep looking and remeber u don't need a man to b yourself GOOD LUCK
2007-04-17 07:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by lilbowpeep7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... My brother's single. He's in Lakeside.
2007-04-17 07:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋