I have been seeing a guy and at the moment we are not in the same town. he has had to tell me that he has found someone else, as she has read stuff that we have sent to each other. I am furious as he has asked me not to contact him, and hope that i understand the situation, its a mess, and that he will c me in a few weeks when the dust has settled. Do u think that he has got a cheek, he even said that he didn't want to make an enemy of me - he's just setting me up as a shag on the side???
2007-04-17 03:57:56 · 24 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup hes a cheeky buggar allright however I wouldnt waste your time or energy being furious hun - cut your ties with him - delete his number and move on.
And when he does contact you when the dust settles - tell him where to stick it.
x
2007-04-17 04:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Loli,
Firstly, let me say how sorry that you have met such a crap boy!!!
All I can say is this - be careful. He's obviously been seeing this girl the same time as you and has only come clean about it because he's been caught out. Not particularly 'nice-guy' behaviour.
How this continues is your choice. If you do become a shag on the side it's because you have chosen it.
My advice? Sack him off. He's been deceitful and dishonest and he unless he has a fantastically brilliant (and truthful) explanation for what's happened then he doesn't deserve any more of your time!
Hope it all works out x
2007-04-17 11:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by taschalou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to set you up as a side dish he wouldn't have told you about this new girl and wanted to distance himself from you. He just thinks that you're probably mad because his decision was a selfish one and is giving you time to cool off.
It's a small price to pay to find out that he won't be loyal to you in the future. So it's best to just forget about it, he also told you the truth and it would've hurt a lot more in the end if he lied and kept contacting you while being with this girl.
2007-04-17 11:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick 2 fingers up and poke your tongue out at him sod him and find a decent man who knows how to treat a woman not someone who messes about. I am sure he wouldn't want to make an enemy of you specially if he has been trying to hide things from you as you could cause a whole lot of trouble ;o)
2007-04-17 11:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and learn not to be treated like that why would you go with a guy who has a gf thats just silly and stupid and it lets him know your easy which means he doesn't give a **** about you and will do anything to deny you to this other girl who obviously means more to him if he's hiding you, call her and tell her he didin't tell you about her that will sort the prick out, you should be out there finding a nice guy who wants you and only you.
2007-04-17 11:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....I understand your frustration!! The best thing you can possibly do is leave him be.....meaning NO CONTACT WITH HIM AT ALL. That's the best way to avoid making enemies with one another. Move on to something better. Obviously he wasn't the one for you, because this wouldn't have happened. Good luck!!
2007-04-17 11:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loli, you've been asking this question for weeks now (at least 15 times) How many variations on the same answer do you need to get the picture? Move on.
2007-04-17 11:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is little to be gained by paying even another minutes attention to him.
The best revenge you can find is your own happiness. Move on and take up a physical sport to work off some of your aggression!
2007-04-17 11:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it. he has no respect for you because he has shared some private things that you have sent eachother! Tell him you would rather stick needles in your eyes than wait around for him and find someone that respects you. If he moans about it or tries to persuade you, simply say 'here's 50pence, phone someone who gives a f**k!!' xx
2007-04-17 12:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it - find someone else to shag.
2007-04-17 11:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by costa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋