So i have quite a big crush on this guy. We only have two classes together & sit opposite each other in one of them(cant get any closer-set seats :(), we don't talk although he passed me a couple of weeks ago when leaving and said "have a good weekend kayla" which was cute & i just answered "you too", we look at each other then look away, embarrassed. He doesnt seem to go out at weekends to pubs etc and hangs out with his mates at break who i dont talk to either (so i cant really talk to him) & i think hes shy (same as me) ive not seen him for a whole week cause of spring vacation & have another week to go, how can i get him when vacation is over? :) i cant stop thinking about him!
2007-04-17 03:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off the next time you see him you need to break the ice. Try to run into him somewhere and just casually ask him how his vacation was. Then as you too carry on in conversation ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. He will say yes and from then on you have to let the magic work itself. Good luck.
2007-04-17 03:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! That was similar to my circumstance that happened during winter break!
Well, what I did was, he happened to have aim. So I imed him a question, and it went from there. I didn't know he would be a potential love interest. Yes, he was very shy, but on line, he's more outspoken.
I went back to school, and all our talks ...dissipated, we didn't talk much, until I started talking to him about our "bet" that we had online. He brought out his more "outspoken" side, and it progressed very quick...in a matter of 3 weeks, we became a couple.
Therefore my advice would be:
To converse with him online; it's less scary for him and you, and the word still gets to each other.
Or go shopping, and get something for him. Buy a little bookmark, a book (if he likes to read), anything small. And say you happened to go, and got him something. If he blushes, says thanks, and takes it, it shows he has interest!
(I did that; I gave my bf a scarf!)
2007-04-17 03:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, 2 shy people who like each other but wont act is like the defenition of infinity. Im just going to tell you what you want to hear, persue him. Find something to open a conversation, something you may have in common (even if its silly).
Try and avoid things like "hows your weekend" because they can be answered in one word and you havent achived anything. Go for coversation openers that probe him for larger answers even if you randomly bust out something like. What do you think about x, and if he answers in one word say why. Just talking and listening opens things up for more conversaion.
2007-04-17 03:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first day of classes, during break, go up to him and say "hi, how way your spring break?" When he answers "how was yours" or something like that, say "ok, but I missed talking to you"
Hope that helped
Good luck!
2007-04-17 03:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by z0rd0npkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwwwwwww thats just cute!!! Kayla your too cute!!!!
2007-04-17 03:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can invite him for a social event and chat ove general issues
2007-04-17 03:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by dianadaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him when u see him.
2007-04-17 03:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋