I met this really lovely girl in a night club and we went back to her place and had sex. Then we arranged to go out for a drink then at the end of the night she drove me home. We are meeting up again soon and going out to dinner. What I want to know should I ask her for sex this time. The reason I ask is because I don’t what to spoil things. At the moment I am doing what I need to do, I suppose because I am hoping it turns out be more than just a fling. However at the same time I don’t what her to think I am just trying to get her into bed. Normally I just chat and ask if they what to come to mine or there place, but this a context I have not have much experience with. I suppose the thing is I am a decent man just don’t want to come across sweat and innocent, if this describes my point.
2007-04-17 01:58:44 · 30 answers · asked by mysticvegeatable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't ask for it you idiot,wait for the time to be right so that it happens naturally. she will think your nuts if you say "excuse me do you fancy a s**g." trust me it will happen when she feels comfortable enough with you. maybe she is sick of being treated like a piece of meat by past fellas. take the time to woo her and be romantic with her. make her feel special. don't be in such a hurry,take time to get to know each other. every woman dreams of her prince charming romancing her,not asking her for sex over the starter,lol. good luck. hope all go's well.
2007-04-17 02:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems there's some possible mileage in this relationship - after a one-night stand you're getting together for dinner which indicates you're getting to know each other better and it could lead to a long term thing. So treat her like a potential girlfriend rather than a potential sex-for-tonight partner and you could make this work. Don't ask for sex, just see whether it develops. If it doesn't turn into sex on the second date, and she wants to see you again, then she's telling you that she wants to take the relationship further and get to know you more as a boyfriend.
Good luck.
2007-04-17 02:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know its time for a haircut?
Same with sex you can just tell, you never ask it is an unspoken dance between two people.
Just let it come to you, expect it will and look for signs but never puch yourself off on her.
Ler her lead with the signs, then just let it happen.
But during the night just have fun and don't worry about the sex, it can ruin a good night out.
If the night out is good then your chances will be greatley enhanced.
Oh to be young again, you lucky bastard.
2007-04-17 02:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jack L. W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ASK for sex!!!! Seriously what age are you? Its not like you just ask outright like you would if you were to ask could you borrow a cup of sugar!!!
circumstances prevailing to sex are what you need to watch out for! If you are invited into the house - or you invite her into yours and things start getting a bit steamy then I think its safe to say that you will get to that point! Use your instincts - is she being very flirty or touchy feely with you? Just watch for the obvious signs!
xx
2007-04-17 02:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ask, it will end in tears. She will think that you only want to have sex with her and just spent all the time you were with her trying to get her in bed. Remember your not asking for something trivial.
2007-04-17 02:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by txc142 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you have had a great night together than why do you need to have sex to finish the night off? if you are really gagging for it just give her a really steamy snog when you say goodbye, this should make her want to stay the night with you! works a treat for me!
2007-04-17 02:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-01 00:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should have to ask for sex. If it's going to happen, it'll flow but asking. No way. That's desperate my friend-Desperate. If you want it, do something to get her in the mood.
2007-04-17 02:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by ANGIE A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Not listen to Bluefruitrollop....or ur date will laugh in ur face..!
I wouldn't say anything at all, go back to hers or urs, and if it happens then cool but dont rush things or certainly do not ask her for sex or he will prob think thats all ur interested in...x
2007-04-17 02:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ask her for sex you just come on to her and meet and and then lay her down the bed and she will know what you want.
that all i can give you but i think that is he best way to do it wothout asking her
2007-04-17 02:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by scotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋