how to not slap her?

Question

im going away with 2 of my friends for 3 days and all a sudden one says he bringing his gf now i gotta spend 3 days with her as well. his gf is the type that yells at you if u speak to her bf and she such a fake wanna be i wanna slap her every time i see her also she drunk most the time that make matters worst. i am not missing this trip for anything but i dont wanna go coz of this girl. i cant say to him not to bring his gf as he paid for the room and travel and tickets all ready for her. how can i spend 3 days with her and not kill her

we are all sharing the same room

the main thing is i want to be able to speak to my mate without his gf yelling at me coz ive known him a long time now and i feel i should be allowed to speak to him if i want to

Answer 1

Avoid her at all cost. If all else fails pay another girl to smack her lol

Answer 2

I know it's really frustrating to have a weirdo tagging along on a trip.But dont let this bug spoil your day.When she starts acting up, bite your tongue and ignore her.Move away from her as much as possible.Spend your time taking pictures of beautiful sceneries.If you happen to go to bar and she gets drunk, let her and dont try to get drunk yourself, be sober and sensible.Man...i know it would be so great to slap her till she gets red on the face but hold it, doing that would only make matters worst.If i were you, id rather spend my time in a new place making new friends.

Have a wonderful trip!

Answer 3

People are being very aggressive about this girl, slightly unfairly I think.

Speak to her calmly, reassure her that you have no intentions of impinging on her relationship. Include her in the planning of the holiday and ask her to calm down the yelling as it makes everyone feel uncomfortable.

She's obviously just a bit insecure, but make her feel included in the group, and she'll probably be fine. Plus you'll come across as mature and caring.

Answer 4

Wow! What a situation, I know, send him the message that he better keep her well behaved. And if he doesn't have fun humiliating her! Hehe I mean like you said she's always drunk and she's a fake. So this is like slapping her....without touching her. Start talking to your friend about the days before he dated her. She will be bound to get ticked off. So when she does, say," Ohmigosh! YOU are here! I totally forgot!" Then when she starta acting like a biotch, say," did someone forget to take their happy pills?" It always pisses my enemies off wen i say that. And like when she starts hanging out wit her boyfriend, say something like, "Hey matt(or watever his name is) we're going to the pool and were wondering if u wud like 2...o i c ur buisy. Have fun wit HER!!" and go to the pool and have a blast. Also sometimes u can pretend she doesn't exist and ignore her. It will be the best trip for u, and the worst for her!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Talk to your friend. It seems like this was supposed to be a "guy" thing. Isn't there another guy who can go in her stead and reimburse him the money he spent?
Let him know how uncomfortable you are around her and that it was supposed to be a guy thing.
If he won't change his mind then go on the trip and avoid her. Go off on your own or with your other friend and leave the two love birds to do their own thing. Maybe he will get the hint and not blow it next time.
Stay away from her.

be cool...

Answer 7

Dont hold back woman , Slap her, Punch her rip out her hair, lol youll feel better for it, or just tell her to p/@@ off, just dont put up with the way she treats you all, you never know your friend may see what a bi/>@ she is by spending so much time together and see the error of his ways lol xxx

Answer 8

go out with ya other mate while ya there. hopefully ya spend so much time having fun you'll forget she's even there alternatively you could just spike her drink with sleeping tablets and let her sleep for a whole week in the sun so she goes lobster red then slap her sunburn ouch!!!!

Answer 9

just grin and bear it hun! dont let her ruin the trip away!!!
Try and avoid her as much as possible - if you dont have to be in her company - dont!
It might be an idea to mention to your boyfriend that you find her quite hard to take and whilst you're not going to cause trouble whilst away - that you would appreciate if if you and he could spend a bit of time away from her for your sanity purposes!
xx

Answer 10

say you have come down with a contagious disease and you wouldn't want to pass it on,so unfortunately you will have to stay at home tucked up in bed. at least that way no arguing and no killing. problem solved,lol. best of luck if you decide to go xx