Cant you love someone right away?
2007-04-17 01:51:53 · 8 answers · asked by alien 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well love does take time especially for guys...i fell in love with my boyfriend on the 5th month we were dating and man i got so hurt because one time i said i love you and he said he wasnt ready for that...and man did it hurt...but later like 3 months later he loved me but just thinking bout it hurts me still..we have been together for almost 4 years..
2007-04-17 02:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Traviesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is true. For some love @ first sight is usually physically first then can develop more emotionally. For my dh and I , he did not get me going in the attractiveness department but like his inner, so that developed first. I questioned all the time whether I could love someone doesn't have the whole package. For me, it grew in time and yes, I do love him now.
2007-04-17 08:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by ANGIE A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people claim that they can love someone right away and it might be true, but me myself i don't believe that because i have never loved someone right it takes time for me to love somebody, i've had one person tell me that he loves me right away and for some reason i don't believe him at all and he might be telling the truth, i don't believe in love at first sight but people might really be like that.
2007-04-17 08:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone right away, is a crush.
2007-04-17 08:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by lilith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but it is not pure love...it has lots of lust and passion for the unknown. Only with time love gets greater, with affection and sincere interest about the other persons feelings.
2007-04-17 08:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Persa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that Lust is more the thing that attracts one person to another.....BUT.....it is the person who resists the temptation to do anything about it that acheives Love.....love is the comfortable, trusting, secure feeling you get when you've connected with someone WITHOUT the physical thing first!!
2007-04-17 08:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by red_rkt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure can
2007-04-17 08:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it does.
2007-04-17 09:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by yoyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋