I made friends with this really nice,funny,crazy guy named Harley who told me from day one he was gay. And he sure acted like it. But because he was gay, when he messed around with me (play flirt), i'd feel free to mess back . But now he says he's straight and that he likes me. I've never really seen him as a guy(i know that sounds bad!) so i dont know what to do
2007-04-17 01:28:45 · 19 answers · asked by Raven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply he has changed his mind. If you never really saw him as a guy then why did you play flirt with him?
2007-04-17 01:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont go out with gay people. Or in this case a gay person who is acting straight. Think about it this way, this guy gave up the life of a gay for you. He either likes you a lot or he's a good actor for saying that hes gay
2007-04-17 01:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Zmoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aside from what his sexual orientation is or used to be, is he someone you're attracted to? Obviously not as you say you never saw him that way!! so dont lead him on and do not ruin the frienship, or if the feelings are mutual, yu guys could have a wonderful relationship as the friendhip was there first.
2007-04-17 01:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by eccie83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him, you need to tell him that. You also need to stop messing with his head by not "play flirt". If you do like him, than give him a chance. You're obviously friends for a reason. Hope this helps.
2007-04-17 01:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheerfullysmiley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not go from gay to straight at the flip of a switch. He lied to you about bieng gay to get close to you, what else will he lie to you about. Relationships must be built on trust, he has already destroyed this, be wary of him.
2007-04-17 01:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is bi-sexual and just didn't realize it or just didn't tell you. You need to sit him down and tell him to be honest with you and also tell him that you don't feel the same for him because you never saw that as a possibility--after all, his identity in your presence has always been something else.
2007-04-17 01:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he was not "straight" up in the beginning with you, then this is a person that just can't be trusted. People shouldn't be playing with people's minds ....
Move on!
2007-04-17 01:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should have been honest with you in the first place honey. if you don't feel the same way about him, thats alright. dont worry. i bet he s a great friend. be honest with him, and hopefully you will keep a good mate.
2007-04-17 01:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck! Life is too short!
If you 'like' him, go for it!
Many young guys are confused!
Us older ones are also confused, but in a different way!!!!
2007-04-17 01:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by snapdragon747 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing big deal. Just reject him in a nice way. I think he will understand that love are forgiving.
2007-04-17 01:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Darren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋