When I have invited two girls in my email list for my birthday party that were bitches,just to be polite,but now I realise they are bitching about me?
WHATS THE BEST WAY TO tell them they are not invited anymore?
2007-04-17 01:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by swept away 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Dear ***** 1 and ***** 2 (just forward it to them no need to blind carbon copy, gives them something to discuss amongst themselves later),
You may be aware (and relatively excited) of a particular revelry in celebration of my own birth that you appear to have been invited to. However, I have reason to believe that you and your partners in crime have involved themselves in dishonourable and scandalous conduct at my own expense. Therefore, it would be especially unseemly of myself to follow through with the aforementioned invitations and would now like to thoroughly DIS-INVITE you from said party.
Kind regards,
swept_away
2007-04-17 01:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure there is a best way to un-invite someone. It will be hurtful no matter what you say, unless you have a true excuse, such as the party is off for all invited because of such and such reason. If you don't want them around because you don't like them anymore, say or write:" I hereby withdraw my invitation to my birthday party." and accept the consequences.
2007-04-17 01:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by VW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them through a note that the larger party where friends were included is cancelled for some private reason.They will understand that they are no more welcome. And if you meet them before the day of the party, tell them that may be some other time you will be able to invite them over. This will reduce the bitter effect. ( Anyway it was you who invited them in the first place!)
2007-04-17 01:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're ready to confront them with what you've heard that they've said, I don't think there is a way. Also, one thing I always ask myself if I've heard that someone said something about me is, "Did I actually hear the person say it or did it come from a third party?" When you hear something coming from someone other than the person who supposedly said it you don't really know if it was said, what exactly was said and how it was said. Anyone repeating something can change the wording or the tone a little and have it sound better or worse than it really was.
2007-04-17 01:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Be direct and uncompromising.
It's not like you want to retain a close friendship, is it?
People come and people go. Don't waste too much time on the nasty ones.
Have a great party and wipe these girls off your email list for good.
2007-04-17 01:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sun W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't be polite to bitches......so just tell them they are no longer invited. And get ready to be called a ***** yourself.
2007-04-17 01:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just let them come and ignore them or tell them that they are no longer considered part of the guest list. You don't have to give an explanation to them ; they will just deny whatever your accusation is anyway.
2007-04-17 06:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. move the party to someplace else.. and don't tell them! LOL!
It is very hard to un-invite someone.. all you can do is contact them and ask them not to come.
2007-04-17 01:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Tom♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that since you hear they have been complaining about you, you will understand if they do not come to your party. And leave it at that. They will probably stay away.
2007-04-17 06:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bitches you are not invited anymore. Unless you are afraid they will kick your butt then you would just let them come on.
2007-04-17 01:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋