2007-04-17 01:07:04 · 27 answers · asked by alien 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you try and make someone love you it will never work. If you want a shot at her - then get her attention and be persistent. Friendship is the hardest thing in love. You should like the person, be friends with the person, and before you know it you can't live without each other - then your in love. Mission accomplished.
2007-04-17 01:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you can NEVER make someone love you. Like / Love really starts from feelings between 2 persons. If that feeling never exist, it won't develop, no matter how long.
If you notice that girl don't have feelings towards you, is better to move on. If not... you'd end up feeling it was a waste of time and hurt yourself badly.
I personally just stepped out from this situation. I had really fallen for a guy, yet as time goes, I realized that he only treated me as a friend, I was really hurt and cried so badly. Yet... I know I just need time to recover from it. Don't want the same case to happen on you.
Remember... there is always someone better, only that you haven't meet him/her yet.
So... Take care & Good luck!
2007-04-17 08:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force a girl to love you.
love is a mutual feeling that is shared between two people and can't be forced.
the best advice i can give you though is to get noticed by the girl. Do things that you would normally do but do them with even more of a sense of accomplishment. also be confident in yourself and approach the girl. don't try to jump the gun too quick though just by being friends and once you have that you can build up a relationship and learn more about her then before. and when you feel like you are ready and she is ready ask out on a date. and if she says no then don't stop until she says yes [but don't be a stalker!!!].
good luck
2007-04-17 08:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by RyBialach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,you cannot make anyone love you.Love isnt something that you can control,it simply happens.However,you can become friends with this female and see where it leads.Go up to her and strike up a conversation.Make sure you keep the conversation alive,or she may get bored.Talk about movies,music,bands,foods,television shows etc etc .Ask her her favorites and you share yourself.Casually,bring up the weekend and ask her what her plans are.If she has none as her if she would like to hang out.Stay friends for a while,get her used to being around you.Make sure you treat her respectfully and be a gentleman.Later down the road,if something should arise between you two,you can ask her to be your girlfriend.Until then,hang out and remain friends.Make sure you hold your head high and be confident,we smell fear!! lol Good luck hun and have a good day!!
2007-04-17 08:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol..i guess its pretty obvious by everyone's reaction that you CANNOT MAKE a girl love you.....sure,you CAN buy the ferrari..buy her expensive gifts...but she won't love YOU..she'll love the ferrari and the gifts!!And unless you just want a one night-stand with her (and i'm hoping you don't!),you can't sway her with presents and material possessions...For a girl to LOVE you..all you can do is always be there for her..protect her..understand and listen to her (even IF she just rambles on about clothes and malls or w/e :D )....be thoughtful..sweet..surprise her...and just basically do everything you can for her.And remember,you can't MAKE her love you...all you can do is try and try and hope she ends up falling in love with you.Except she will have fallen for WHO YOU ARE and not your ferrari or expensive gifts.(although expensive gifts are nice,just don't base your entire relationship on it!!)...and if she doesn't fall in love with you after you being there for her and all that..maybe she isn't the one for you,and you should look around for someone who will..good luck!
2007-04-17 08:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by totally_anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you with her now and she does not love you move on. If you don't know her well, ask her out to somewhere fun. Get to know her by taking her to coffeehouses, arts events, museum, skating, etc. Find out more about her and about yourself, this will make your relationship grow...and love will grow if she is the one.
Prepare yourself for love by getting to know and loving yourself. This is the best way, because if your confident and self assured without being arrogant...that's sexy & attractive.
Learn tantra, it will help when you find the right girl and you get intimate. Check out www.tantra.com and Bliss (1997) DVD
Research:
Sacred Sex
Tantra
2007-04-17 08:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by TantraGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you just because you want them too! Love grows between two people who like one another and start to build on a friendship and continue from there.
2007-04-17 08:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannont make a girl love you. you can only hope she will come to like you over time. besides, the true messed up thing in this world is that girl's judge guys by thier apearances so that the truely great guys don't ever get the girl. just the stupid good looking ones.
2007-04-17 08:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you already really know the answer, you can't "make" anyone love you. You CAN make yourself attractive to her by being a good person, kind, considerate, honest, etc. Then all you can do is wait & see, let nature take it's course. If it doesn't happen, then it wasn't meant to be.
2007-04-17 08:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U cant make a gal to love you but u can try to attract her to your good points instead tho...
Unless the gal have some interests in you
Good Luck
2007-04-17 08:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by doraemon11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋