Me and my girlfriend are adults in our late 20’s and going out for two months. My girlfriend works for this one lady who she takes care of for about three years. The lady she takes care of, her son has feeling for my girlfriend. I have suggested to my girlfriend that since he has told her he has feelings for her and he doesn’t seem to get the point that she is with someone she should quit her job. But my girlfriend says it’s a good job and she doesn’t want to quit. Is there something wrong here or is it just me? Maybe it’s me? She goes to work everyday so I am there to question it in my head all the time. What is going on and should I do?
2007-04-16 21:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is just you being jealous. Get over it.
2007-04-16 21:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has had the job for the last 3 years and suddenly she should quit because you are jealous???
You can't have any kind of a relationship with anyone without trust. You really need to get over being so insecure. She is just going to work. I have a feeling that with your attitude, the job will last longer than you. Change your attitude unless you want to lose her.
2007-04-17 04:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by beckini 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be panicking unnecessarily at the moment friend. You've only been together 2 months and you don't know what the future holds. Let's face it, your relationship may not last and then your girlfriend has given up a job she likes for nothing.
You don't seem to trust her much either....and it's very early days for you to be so paranoid. You are giving all the wrong signals to your girlfriend and you may put her off before you've even really started out. Tread carefully.
2007-04-17 04:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by lou b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Does she feel anything for this guy. You gotta be careful here. If you jump to conclusions you will end up losing her cause she feels you cant trust her. But if you can trust her then there is no problem with her keeping the job.
Ultimatly this will be a test of your relationship with her.
2007-04-17 04:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is the worst situation to be in! You gotta ask your girl whats more important. Her Job or You?, This other dude needs to be sorted out and sumone 2 explain to him that the girl is taken! Why dont u personaly pay him a visit and state to him what is appropriate and what is innapropriate.
2007-04-17 04:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋