ok well, im friends with all these guy who arent the best looking guys including myself. We try hard to get a gf but it never seems to work out. I can accept that not all the girls will like are personality but we treat them with respect and have great time with them. We always just turn into friends with them. It has to be apperance because it never seems to work. You would think that soon after a while a girl that you asked out would just like you for a personality, but no. It horse crap. Were not push overs. Were not like the guys that are like are you ok whats wrong. I see guys even hit women( not jokingly) and they get more women than i dont even know. I hate it
2007-04-16 17:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is someone for everyone...
You will get the girl..trust me.
Not all women are that shallow. I happen to be madly in love with a man who is average in the looks department but we "click" and treat each other like gold.
Just wait it out (assuming your young) you will find your perfect match...I know I did.
2007-04-16 17:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by emaaaazing! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here it is, you're too nice. Incorporate some of the "edgy" parts into your personality. Joke with them about stuff. As long as there is a good dose of funny when you're teasing them, it is OK. Don't give gifts or declare your affection before at least date 5. This tends to creep women out. Don't "hang out" after the interaction is over, move on. Try it, if it works consistently keep using it, if it consistently doesn't work, try something else.
2007-04-17 01:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mostly it's a mixture of both...personality and looks..I've met some handsome guys with not very good personalities and although it's easy for 'em to get gurls...gurls don't stick 2 'em 4 long cuz of they're wierd personality...smthing that's hard to change...
As for you and your friends,y not work on changing your looks??try different hair styles mayb...change ur dress code etc...I mean I feel every person no matter wat is beautiful/handsome in one way or the other...sm good hair,sm beautiful eyes etc...V just hv 2 discover wat's r best feature n SHOW that off...Besides, a perfect gurl would love you unconditionally..with or w/o good looks...she would love you for you...the real you...So wait for HER...
2007-04-17 01:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by J F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree some men who don't deserve loyalty get it,
but those who are willing to wait for a woman that will love them even after looks have faded have a tendency to need patience... but in the end.... your happy and so is your wonderful mate... both inside and out.
who u checkin' for mrs. right or miss right now???
2007-04-17 00:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is true, then why do you see all of the handsome guys with ugly girls and vice versa?
2007-04-17 01:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks get your attention but personality detirmines if you stay in the game or not...
2007-04-17 00:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its can be both...or one or the other....depends on the girl..you don't want to change who you are, you want someone to pick you for you..its just going to take that special someone longer than you thought to recognize you for your personality....be patient and good luck.
2007-04-17 00:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats so true...Unfortunately thats just the way it is,it beats me!
2007-04-17 00:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cassý 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its 50/50 for me, u need both but cant have neither
2007-04-17 00:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by ctdude24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋